I found the new Trek movie to be exactly in the spirit and feel of almost all the Star Trek movies, it's essentially a remake of Nemesis (which was in itself a rehash of Wrath Of Khan).
It was no better and no worse (the media seems to be behind it so the cinema viewing public is too).
It carried over all that was going wrong before with Star Trek as well as a large amount of what was always enjoyable about it.
The special effects look better but that's to be expected after such a long gap, the story doesn't make much sense but it often doesn't with Star Trek movies or Star Trek in general.
There were some nice performances but there were some terrible ones too.
It's over-rated but not that bad.
It shares with the prequel films a feeling that the action sequences were based around the levels of a computer game.
Kirk and the Romulans jumping from one polished surface to another is no more emotionally engaging than Obi-Wan doing it in TPM.
It also had that unnatural, "Hello, I'm well loved character A, you must be well loved character B, nice to meet you for the very first time" feel to a lot of the conversations.
The new style Chekhov is the Jar-Jar of that film too (Silly voice mannerisms Chek! Annoying to the point of distraction Hov!) and Sulu is suddenly without any noticable charm or charisma.
And don't get me started on the pointless Scotty introduction to get Kirk back on the ship subplot.
It's not the bold new reworking everyone thinks it is, it's just an average Star Trek film full of the usual flaws just as TPM was an average Star Wars film with much of the same problems that Jedi had (only without the great OT cast to pull it along).