Jaitea said:
darth_ender said:
The man essentially said the church doesn't have priestesses because women are too busy with the important job of mother. His wife was the "home manager".
That's his view. The real reason is, well, to put it frinkly, because God said so :P
Now I don't want you to think this is me on my high horse again,......but this type of answer was what I found on the LDS site & the reason why I annoyed you earlier,.....it's the 'don't ask' or 'just because' reasoning.
I have 2 kids, if my son asks me for £10 and I ask him what he wants it for and he answers,...'just' or 'because',..... those aren't proper reasons,.....I'll press him until I find out what it's for, then I'll make a decision whether I give it to him or not.
I hear parents giving reasons to kids why they aren't allowed to do things or have things with, 'because I said so!'....this isn't an answer, it's a don't bother me response....It's better to give a reason why you think that what they want is too expensive or what they want to do is too dangerous etc.
The explanaton why women can't be priests in the Catholic Church has an explanation, which you can reason with, you can question that reason because of the changes in society today,.....but the explanations in the LDS to coffee drinking, women priests etc as 'The Lord says so'......to me......personally......sound half baked.
I have known you and respectected you for a few years _ender, and I know you are a wise and intelligent guy, but what harm would it do if you question.
In the Protestant Church I remember that the Lord encourages people to question, not just to follow.
Again, I'm trying not to push too much, just for you to take a step backwards to look at it from my perspective, I know you love your faith
J
Trying to respond to those threads I was unable to address before.
In my church is probably among the most exploratory of faiths. Many leaders have spoken of evolution as an outright lie, yet at the LDS Church-owned Brigham Young University, evolution is taught in biology classes and other leaders have endorsed the theory. We have many who are very involved in science, politics, etc. We are a well educated people, and we really are involved in research in many different fields. I believe that we are far more prone to questioning and seeking our own answers than most Protestants.
I will also say that I've questioned many things many times in the past two decades. I am a person of both skepticism and faith, which probably sounds like an oxymoron. I have found a point where I can exercise both natures to the degree I feel comfortable with. But let me phrase it this way: believing in God requires faith. If I understand the reasoning for every little thing, where is the faith? If I only believe what I understand, or obey what I can justify, where is the faith? Let's look at other aspects of faith. I believe that man Jesus of Nazareth was more than any other man, that he was and is the anointed one, the Messiah of the Jews, the Christ of all mankind! Why? Because...God said so, and I believe that he has confirmed it in my heart. I don't fully understand why God's plan required the sacrifice of a perfect being (yes, I understand the theology behind it, but that doesn't mean I understand everything). Ultimately, I accept what God has said because I have faith. Such is the nature of everything I believe. Women and the priesthood is no different.
As for Catholic reasoning, I will probably need a link to Ric's post, as I began skimming his thread when things got lengthy and I got behind. I may have even skimmed it if it was here. I don't know why Catholics justify all-male priesthood.
Let me turn the tables a bit as well. How often have you questioned what society has deemed acceptable? How often have you dissented from what is commonly believed to be right? Society is no better a determinant of what's right or wrong than anything else. Societies are varied and differ across the globe. Which society do you choose to follow? The one in which you live? In German society in 1942, it was acceptable to turn in your Jewish neighbors and those harboring them. Would you do the same? I imagine not. Now imagine the world in 50 years. What if your ideals remain the same, yet those of ever changing society are different? What if your grandchildren challenged your ideals? Would you change simply because what you hold to be true is different from what the rest of the nation believes?
My point here is that I'm not so sure you really question society either. And when you do, either now or in the future, maybe you're right to be in the minority. To believe that women are not inferior, yet have a different role to play, perhaps even one that is less prominent but no less important, does not necessarily mean that I am wrong. Millions of brainwashed Mormon women ;) are quite content with what they believe God has in mind for them, and don't see it as a sexist policy. Sometimes God has things set up a certain way that we don't understand. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't follow. Understanding often comes later, and we realize that his reasoning was quite sound. That is faith.