TV's Frink said:
darth_ender said:
I don't think that was his point. He was simply pointing out that men and women are different, and therefore not to be forced into all the same roles.
lol, who is doing the forcing into roles here?
Societal pressures practically force women to assume the roles of men and women these days, far more than in the reverse. I know far more working single moms than single dads. Yet, society says they can, therefore they must.
I ask you again, did you read that link I sent. It's called The Family: A Proclamation to the World, and it speaks our views on roles. It states the ideal, but also states that individual circumstances may vary.
The primary role difference you are getting up in arms about is the priesthood. And somehow that is so the men can stay in power? Really, you know little about my church and the ways it works to elevate women. Just because it doesn't put them in the exact same box as the men, it goes to great lengths to strengthen them, give them leadership, and often our leaders speak about how they are better than we are.
There's a joke I heard recently that requires a little explanation beforehand. Every six months my church has a general conference, a broadcast where our leaders speak and we all can watch and listen. Part of the broadcast involves a men-only session. But the week before has a women only session. So the joke goes like this: I went to the men's session (priesthood session) this week, and it was nice to hear them say how we were doing a good job and right on target. Then I looked around and realized I'd accidentally gone to the women's session.
*ba-dum-tish*
I'll find you some quotes later. In any case, you spoke about the lengths some will go to in order to preserve power. But really, my church does not offer much power to preserve. Only the top leadership gets any money out of what they do, and it's only a portion of their former professional salaries in order to meet their needs...certainly no large amount of money. Other than that, they work extremely hard and the only substantial reward is the virtue of doing what they believe to be right. The rest of us (remembering that I'm in the bishopric, meaning I'm putting in additional hours of work in my calling) do our work for free. For me that means around 15 extra hours a week. For the bishop, it probably is closer to 20-30. Yeah, that's the reward and power we crave and get because we're the lucky ones to hold the priesthood.