This is the thought that came to my cough-addled brain on the train ride home. Do you have a sincere and general interest in people? Maybe you enjoy engaging strangers/acquaintances in conversation, hearing about their lives, just getting to know them, making plans to see them again, etc. Maybe you're shy or social but I'm curious about those of you who, in your own way, do take such an interest and why?
The thought came to me when a woman sat next to me with her large suitcase (she had gotten on at stop where the Amtrak & bus station is located) and she asked how I was, to which I pleasantly responded, "wonderful." That was my intended end of the conversation. That's more than is expected on mass transit anyhow. After a couple of beats I broke down and asked if she had had a long trip. Apparently her plans were frustrated by a rogue bus driver so she decided to cancel her plans and go back home rather than arrive at her destination much later. It was a pleasant little conversation.
I think it would be great fun to be like Elwood P. Dowd (in every sense of the name) but while not anti-social, I'm content to not engage with many people, even when I may benefit from it socially or professionally (if I hear the word "networking" one more time....) or maybe I would just find them interesting (or maybe I do find them interesting). And it's not for a lack of esteem that I'm satisfied to spend a plane or train ride without saying more than a couple words to the person next to me. And for those of you are less people-centric, do you wish you wish you did take more of an interest in people? I'm not saying wave to each person in the grocery aisle (though that would be amusing) but striking up more conversations...not because you want a new friend, business contact, or lover but just because.
Again: cough-addled brain.