Hal 9000 said:
my family is currently mourning the loss of my father two weeks ago, at the age of 64. Your parents are always going to be larger than life to you, and it’s as if suddenly the moon were missing from the sky. He was frightened to have to go in for the open heart surgery, but I’m glad it went well and he was in a state of recovery when the fatal stroke occurred, so his last waking moments were not of fear.
We weren’t as close as we could have been, and now I regret not making more of an effort to be. I feel really bad for him that this happened, when we were all ready to help him recover and I sort hoped it’d be a good way to muster a closer relationship.
If you wouldn’t mind, prayers for my family are welcome. It’s too late to pray for the man himself, so I am left regretful.
These are sad times indeed. I haven’t lost either of my parents, but I have lost both of my grandfathers. They were both strong believers (father’s father being a pastor), so when they passed, I wasn’t as sad as I was rejoicing at their joining with the Lord. When my mother’s father went, a young man he knew was caring for him, and during the middle of the night (on Father’s Day), he kept awake, singing hymns, praising the Lord, and waiting for him. The young man asked him if God was saying anything, and he answered: “Come home.”
I’m not sure why I’m telling the whole story, but, I was wondering if your father was at all a believer in Christ. Either way, I’ll pray for your family.
God bless.