CP3S said:
darth_ender said:
No, you didn't Perhaps it's your style, but I often feel when you write something, you tend to be condescending and belittling.
Just because I don't pepper my posts with apologies and claims I have the utmost respect for your religion, doesn't mean I intend to be condescending or belittling. I am simply calling ducks ducks. Any "belittling" things I have said have been factual weak points I was interested in hearing your response to, but as you said, that was not your intention for this thread, thus I overstepped.
And when you sound snappish ("Oh, you were sarcastic, which means you can't provide a real answer"), it just sounds like you were overly offended by my innocent sarcasm and are resorting to criticism. Perhaps it's just the way you write, but on numerous occasions it feels like a "grumpy grump" response. If I misread you, I apologize.
I am not easily irritated and I am almost always in a good mood, you're reading a lot that isn't there into my posts.
As for "snappish", you were using sarcasm to mock/dismiss the train of thought I presented to you, sarcasm can be great fun when used at relevant times, but it is an extremely immature and really poor way to try to win/dismiss an opposing argument. I wasn't being snappish, I was simply pointing to the immature use of sarcasm.
Discussion between you and I don't get very far, because you have a tendency to bend it around and somehow make it about me. You've done this in the past. You also do it with other posters that voice opposite views from your own without apology or excessive tact, perhaps it is your form of lite "character assassination", by complaining that they have a massive stick up there ass, any pressure is off of you to continue the discussion, and you can walk away feeling like the bright and cheery always positive upstanding poster. Am I reading way too much into your posts and reactions with this assessment? Almost certainly. Obviously I am just being a "grumpy grump".
Geez, man, you're right, we never get far because you misinterpret me at every turn as well, whether you realize it or not. Have I truly avoided a perilous discussion at any point? Clearly no as you have pointed out in the abortion thread (yes, I'm bringing it up again, make sure you hang me for it). I responded with fervor and to excess in your opinion, but not without rational discussion, never resorting to personal attacks, and never shutting down because I couldn't handle the "walls of logic" (to quote a terribly missed former member here) people were throwing my way. I don't avoid what doesn't match my point of view. Here in this thread I've taken it head on. Have you actually read the past several pages?
And with other folks I've done the same? I've gotten even more irritated at walkingdork for his style, but I think we've generally worked things out and I understand his style. When he says offensive things, I generally don't get so offended. The only other person I didn't get along with was twooffour, and I don't know anyone who did. I did end a discussion with him while he had the last word, but that was because reasoning with him takes a whole different kind of patience that goes beyond trying to be logical or at least providing a different perspective. Please enlighten me if there is someone else I've gotten worked up over and couldn't handle in a mature fashion.
As for the timing of my sarcasm, did you even read the rest of the post? I actually answered your question to the best of my ability in the limited time I had at the moment, then went back to the beginning of my comment and added the sarcastic first sentence. It was literally the last thing I wrote before clicking "Post Reply." I did not dismiss your train of thought, but was trying to make light of the situation. It seems you took me completely in a way that was not intended. At that point I wasn't even irritated with you yet, though I thought your post had been a little diminutive. Go back, read the rest of the post, feel free to look at the links I provided, and if you feel those answers weren't satisfactory, please raise the issue again. I truly will go into greater depth to answer your questions, even though I don't even feel they were that well thought out. My point to it all was that I don't rely simply on that one point, but that I do consider 11 men who did not change their story as a rather reliable testimony that could hold up in court as at least a genuine and commonly shared belief among them. If you don't see it that way, I have no qualms with that.
Ultimately, yes you are reading too much into my posts. I don't intend what you continually assert. I've read many of your posts as well, and it seems like you get in tiffs fairly often. You are clearly an intelligent person and I respect you for many of your points, but I don't think I'm the only one who misinterprets you if your intentions are really not to be confrontational. And as for being a "grumpy grump," it was again an attempt at humor in reference to a certain OT.com member's ridiculous fan edit. Yes, I can be overly sensitive at times, but if you've truly read my posts and if you give me credit for what I do write, I am quite capable of handling a mature conversation and taking difficult issues head on, oft times at the expense of coming off as the upstanding poster. Please be a little more fair-minded in your assessment of me.