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#743570
Topic
The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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Alright, I think we all get a little crazy from time to time.  I am starting this thread because I have seen people talk about how depressed they are.  DrCrowTStarWars is the most recent example that comes to mind.  I don't mean to call him out, but he has posted his feelings rather prominently, so I don't think he'd mind.  This thread is meant only for either sharing your deepest troubles (in other words, not the petty stuff like the b*tching thread), and for those who wish to offer support.  No teasing, no mocking, no bickering, no side conversations about someone.

My reason for starting this thread in this particular instance stems in part over guilt for teasing DrCrow.  He is clearly a bright guy with some amazing insight into characters and stories.  He also has some extreme, irritating, and dangerous political views that have caused me to criticize him rather cruelly at times.  And then he also has some drastic self-critical views that make me fear for him.  So in my attempt to offer support, I wish to share this:

DrCrow: you are a worthwhile person, and there is no doubt in my mind that your family is grateful you are a part of them.  You hold some noble ideals and clearly want a better world to live in.  You have some amazing insight and clearly are an intelligent person.  All this is coming from someone over the Internet who has never met you.  But my opinion should not matter so much.  I am certain your family, flesh and blood people who know you personally, love you very much and want you to be happy.  I am sure that if you take the time to think about it, there are many who love you: friends, classmates, clergy.  Don't worry about what a bunch of people who for all you know could be Bingowings socks think about you.  Yes, I am a real person, but to you, I am nothing more than a bunch of words.  I will never meet you in real life.  My critical statements should not matter to you, nor anyone else's.  If I can do anything to offer you further cyber support, let me know :)

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#743568
Topic
How about a game of Japanese Chess, i.e. Shogi? Now playing Shogi4
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Maybe I missed something.  I made my move in a super hurry.  In any case, I hardly have had time to look at my board with work lately.  I am finally looking at the first decent break day after next, but in any case, this game is really depressing as is, and I think I will resign.  I don't mind starting again if you want, but for now I don't want to go on. :(

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#741565
Topic
Share your good news!
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Possessed said:

^^That was quite obnoxious, and as a result I don't think I like you anymore.

darth_ender said:

Possessed said:

darth_ender said:

Possessed said:

NOT YOU DUMBASS.

Maybe I'm being harsh.  TOO BAD.

 The more I read from you, the less I like you.

Like I give a shit.  

I'm sure Ric knew I was kidding.  If not, then I apologize.  To him though, not to you.  It's a forum.  Think I care if you don't like me? Feel free to go fuck yourself, but don't feel obligated.  It's all personal choice.

 You don't give a crap what I have to say, then why'd you bother replying?  Why bother in the future?  If you don't like my opinion that your behavior lately is exceedingly obnoxious, then you may take your own advice.  It's all personal choice.

 Obviously anybody is going to reply to somebody who openly posts about them and tells them they don't like them, it's common courtesy.  I can think of at least 3 other people on this forum more obnoxious than me, go tell all of them you don't like them either, one by one. Too bad there isn't some forum feature where you wouldn't have to see all the obnoxious things I write, like how the more i read from you the less I like you.  Oh wait that was you. Damn, can't think of anything.

 Well, I appreciate your common courtesy.  Believe me, I've called out a lot of people for saying stuff I don't like.  Don't feel too special.

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#741524
Topic
Share your good news!
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Possessed said:

darth_ender said:

Possessed said:

NOT YOU DUMBASS.

Maybe I'm being harsh.  TOO BAD.

 The more I read from you, the less I like you.

Like I give a shit.  

I'm sure Ric knew I was kidding.  If not, then I apologize.  To him though, not to you.  It's a forum.  Think I care if you don't like me? Feel free to go fuck yourself, but don't feel obligated.  It's all personal choice.

 You don't give a crap what I have to say, then why'd you bother replying?  Why bother in the future?  If you don't like my opinion that your behavior lately is exceedingly obnoxious, then you may take your own advice.  It's all personal choice.

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#741227
Topic
Who'd like to try a chess variant? Now playing Xiang Qi, a.k.a. Chinese chess
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Tobar said:

What about three dimensional chess? 

 How did I miss this post?  This must have been when you did all those silly bumps.  Assuming you still like me, I think it would be fun to play.  I've seen a few versions, but I've never played a real game.  The official rules to Star Trek's Tri-dimensional chess are not very playable, but there is a cool variant I've read about called the Kobayashi Maru variant.  To me it more accurately reflects what is shown on screen, and seems pretty playable (and complicated).

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#740871
Topic
Worst Dialogue Cliche
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DrCrowTStarwars said:

I will not list every time I have heard it but it seems like on every tv show or movie where a female character has a dead mother at some point someone always makes the remark that she looks just like her mother.  What is worse is a lot of times when we finally see the mother in a flashback or a photo the actress playing the mother looks nothing like the actress playing the daughter, so not only is the statement cliched but it is also untrue.

 I find it worse when they look exactly like their mother, except with a slightly different shade of hair color.

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#740597
Topic
STAR WARS: EP V &quot;REVISITED EDITION&quot;<strong>ADYWAN</strong> - <strong>12GB 1080p MP4 VERSION AVAILABLE NOW</strong>
Time

jedimasterobiwan said:

i ask if someone could do that when he's done with the prequels and you make fun of me for it.

 People tease a lot here, but few are actually malicious.  It's usually meant in good fun, and you should take it as such.  Look, your name wasn't written in the topic, and the guy whose name was took the joke quite well.  It's just kind of the culture here to poke fun a bit.  We're actually pretty nice.

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#740293
Topic
The thread for the serious discussion that started in the &quot;Am I a Bully?&quot; thread.
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Well, I find a difference between anger or depression issues, which perhaps seem to apply, and a completely inappropriate political outlook that at times seems to involve banning whatever offends him at the moment, including entire religions.  However, you may be right, and I should try to be nicer, especially when I don't understand a person's situation.