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#1235813
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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oojason said:

pleasehello said:

chyron8472 said:

pleasehello said:

chyron8472 said:

luckydube56 said:

So wait…I was right the first time? This is a safe space thread?

No. Hush.

This is a thread where we discuss toxicity in the Star Wars fanbase, fanbases in general, and by extension society in general. What is wrong with that?

“Safe space” indeed. -.-

I would classify this as a safe-space thread that doesn’t really encourage discussion. We’re really only allowed to discuss “toxicity” as narrowly defined by the original poster, which is fine if that’s what he wants, but makes the thread pretty limited in scope.

OP: “if you are of a mind to take a stand and stick up for the aforementioned people making the movies and the people that like them that ARE being harrassed, then this is the place for it.”

I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with “safe spaces”, but let’s call a spade a spade, shall we?

Suffice it to say, complaining about this thread being a “safe space” feels to me like a complaint about not being given license to be an asshat.

But I have been disappointed by this thread in that it doesn’t let one discuss fan toxicity from any perspective save the one indicated in the OP.

You are of course welcome to create a thread which would address those differing perspectives (or check other previous threads on similar discussions - maybe the ‘Culture, politics, and diversity in Star Wars’ thread or the ‘Let’s talk about Star Wars fans’ thread has/are addressing some of those?)

In other words: This is a safe space.

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#1235812
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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chyron8472 said:

pleasehello said:

chyron8472 said:

luckydube56 said:

So wait…I was right the first time? This is a safe space thread?

No. Hush.

This is a thread where we discuss toxicity in the Star Wars fanbase, fanbases in general, and by extension society in general. What is wrong with that?

“Safe space” indeed. -.-

I would classify this as a safe-space thread that doesn’t really encourage discussion. We’re really only allowed to discuss “toxicity” as narrowly defined by the original poster, which is fine if that’s what he wants, but makes the thread pretty limited in scope.

OP: “if you are of a mind to take a stand and stick up for the aforementioned people making the movies and the people that like them that ARE being harrassed, then this is the place for it.”

I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with “safe spaces”, but let’s call a spade a spade, shall we?

I think the term “safe space” in this sense is rather derogatory.

Suffice it to say, complaining about this thread being a “safe space” feels to me like a complaint about not being given license to be an asshat.

screams in the void said:

I understand that some people genuinely do not like the direction of the new films,or the decisions of those making them , and have some ligitimate criticisms,but this is not the place to heir those concerns , you probably SHOULD start your own topic to express your views

Sounds like the the original poster didn’t want legit criticism here either. So it is not just about not being given license to be an asshat.

Now, if the OP doesn’t want legit criticism here. Fine. But I agree lets call a spade a spade. This is a safe space.

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#1235800
Topic
All Things Star Trek
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chyron8472 said:

Warbler said:

Discovery…Kelvin…the return of Picard…these current status of Star Trek! The current producers objectives: to completely f up Star Trek, to completely ruin it, to boldyly drive away the fans that no version of Trek could drive away before!

What?! Come on.

They rebooted Star Trek with the Kelvin Universe to attract a more mainstream audience. Discovery is a dumpster fire, yes, but not deliberately. And we really have no idea what they’ll do with Picard or if it will even actually lead to anything substantive.

I believe they are talking about merging the two timelines or creating yet another timeline. The whole thing is a mess. I believe Trek should be put out of its misery and then left to rest in peace.

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#1235749
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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DominicCobb said:

Warbler said:

I wonder if she would be offended by my brother and his wife giving their adopted Chinese daughter our last name and an American first name. (I am not sure if they knew her original Chinese name or not)

Come on warb. She’s not a spokesperson for every Asian person you know. She’s talking about her own life and experiences.

I didn’t say she was spokesperson for every Asian.

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#1235748
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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Possessed said:

DominicCobb said:

Warbler said:

I wonder if she would be offended by my brother and his wife giving their adopted Chinese daughter our last name and an American first name. (I am not sure if they knew her original Chinese name or not)

Come on warb. She’s not a spokesperson for every Asian person you know. She’s talking about her own life and experiences.

Are you sure? I was hoping she could give me her recipe for chow mein noodles. Mine are getting pretty good but they’re missing something small that I can’t put my finger on to make them restaraunt quality

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Possessed - explain your statement.

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I was having fun with the idea of KMT being the spokespeople for asians/Asian Americans. Chow mein is one of my personal favorite dishes. That was all, it was not meant to mock her or Asian stereotypes or anything like that. If you think it reads that way I wouldn’t have any bad feelings if you deleted it.

really? *sigh*

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#1235657
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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John_ said:

Warbler said:

oojason said:

Well said Dre and Anchorhead.

 


 

‘Kelly Marie Tran: I Won’t Be Marginalized by Online Harassment’… (in her own words)

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/21/movies/kelly-marie-tran.html

 

What did she mean when she said “my real name is Loan”?

Her real name is Loan. I think Kelly Marie is a stage name.

Hmm. I guess I was over thinking it.

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#1235245
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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Okay, I have calmed down a bit. What specific things do you think the fans that were anti Lucas did, that went too far and went into the area of being toxic? (note I agree somethings were toxic, very toxic and went way too far, I am just trying to get sense of what everyone else feels was toxic and what wasn’t).

Is merely being angry at Lucas and criticizing him on this very forum, toxic? What kind of criticizing goes too far? Where is the line. I am just trying to find out what everyone thinks.

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#1234842
Topic
The ability to create polls and the ignore feature.
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MalàStrana said:

A forum is a community, so I don’t agree with à la carte features that can generate even more aggressivity than we already witness every two posts around here. I get your point though. I just know by experience that such a feature doesn’t work the way you believe it would to prevent this constant aggressive behavior of a few OT.com members.

sometimes some people just can’t get along. The only way to handle that is to separate them. But sometimes one side refuses to separate from the other side and continues to bother them. If the mods can’t or won’t stop that, the ignore feature is the next best solution.

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#1234552
Topic
The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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Handman said:

My father was forced to retire early by his company. He worked there for over 30 years. I’m not sure how to react, I haven’t seen him since I learned the news.

Gosh, sorry to hear that Handman. I know from personal experience what it is like to lose your job suddenly. But I don’t know what it feels like when you’ve been working at the place for over 30 years.

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#1234485
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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Collipso said:

Warbler said:

DrDre said:

Warbler said:

DrDre said:

Warbler said:

screams in the void said:

George was quoted as saying in 2012 , " Why should I make more when everyone yells at you and says what a terrible person you are ?"…granted , he came back after the Disney merger ,had a meltdown , then came to acceptance and then came back to support all the subsequent productions .I watched Mark Hamill’s ceremony for his star on the walk of fame earlier this year and George Lucas and Harrison Ford attended , an interviewer asked Lucas about Star Wars and he said he had nothing to say . I think he is still going through the stages of grief. He did say it was like a divorce after all . Also . on the subject of Jar Jar , Ahmed best has started doing some field notes on the backlash of his character , seems he feels George could have stuck up for him a bit more …https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoRD_SfIbwE

Maybe Lucas should have taken a deeper look at why the fans were yelling at him and saying what a terrible person he was? Maybe he should have more open to the idea that (gasp!) he could have made mistakes that led to the fan hate. The thing is, he could made a lot of the fan hate go away by doing one simple thing: give the oot the release it deserves.

Ah, so the abused should ask himself or herself, why he or she deserves to be abused, rather than expect respectful discourse?

Lucas is not a battered wife.

Kelly-Mary Tran, and Ahmed Best are not battered wifes… I don’t see how that has anything to do with toxic behaviour towards creators of a work for not getting what you want.

You referred to to Lucas like he was an a victim of abuse. He isn’t.

jesus warb. he literally said he didn’t want to make anymore movies due to the amount of attacks towards him. there’s no excuse for that.

and then he went back to counting his zillions(zillions that can’t came from the fans). Can’t say I feel too sorry for him. He was never to my knowledge physically attacked. Did some of it go too far? Yes. But much was justified complaining. In my opinion, Lucas acted like a self centered, arrogant, jerk. Sorry, but that is how I feel.

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#1234470
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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DrDre said:

Warbler said:

DrDre said:

Warbler said:

screams in the void said:

George was quoted as saying in 2012 , " Why should I make more when everyone yells at you and says what a terrible person you are ?"…granted , he came back after the Disney merger ,had a meltdown , then came to acceptance and then came back to support all the subsequent productions .I watched Mark Hamill’s ceremony for his star on the walk of fame earlier this year and George Lucas and Harrison Ford attended , an interviewer asked Lucas about Star Wars and he said he had nothing to say . I think he is still going through the stages of grief. He did say it was like a divorce after all . Also . on the subject of Jar Jar , Ahmed best has started doing some field notes on the backlash of his character , seems he feels George could have stuck up for him a bit more …https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoRD_SfIbwE

Maybe Lucas should have taken a deeper look at why the fans were yelling at him and saying what a terrible person he was? Maybe he should have more open to the idea that (gasp!) he could have made mistakes that led to the fan hate. The thing is, he could made a lot of the fan hate go away by doing one simple thing: give the oot the release it deserves.

Ah, so the abused should ask himself or herself, why he or she deserves to be abused, rather than expect respectful discourse?

Lucas is not a battered wife.

Kelly-Mary Tran, and Ahmed Best are not battered wifes… I don’t see how that has anything to do with toxic behaviour towards creators of a work for not getting what you want.

You referred to to Lucas like he was an a victim of abuse. He isn’t. He is man that made bad decisions and 3 bad movies and one really stupid decision(not releasing the oot). He got some flack for it. But in the end, he is a zillionaire and can live on that nice Skywalker ranch and live very nicely for the rest of his life without have to work another day for the rest of his life(btw the money he got to do all that came from the very fans you accuse of abusing him). He is no victim.

Some people simply deserve fan toxicity for not agreeing with said fans’ points of view.

When you don’t want to give the oot the release it deserves, don’t be surprised if toxicity occurs.

When you make a film like TLJ, and don’t give a character like Luke Skywalker the send-off he deserves, don’t be surprised if toxicity occurs.

It isn’t right for the toxicity to occur, but it isn’t surprising.

Seems like a pretty poor excuse for behaving in an obnoxious manner.

I don’t think I personally behave in an obnoxious manner. But am entitled to my opinions on Lucas and am entitled to say them.

Toxicity should be rejected in all its forms, and not only if it serves your own objectives.

I guess it depended on what you mean by toxicity. I agree people shouldn’t be harassed or threatened and certainly racist and ethnic slurs and the like are totally unacceptable and some name calling goes too far. But I should still be able to post what I think about Lucas on this forum. I don’t mind if he gets booed a little at a convention.

In my view fan toxicity is not solved by pointing the finger at others, but by looking in the mirror.

So why shouldn’t Lucas be looking in the mirror?

Maybe he should, but as far as I can tell Lucas was operating within his rights as a creator, and copyright holder.

He was within his legal rights, but that doesn’t make it morally right. Also, he wasn’t the sole creator of the ot. Lots of people (actors, directors, make up artists, special effects people, set designers, etc) were involved in the creation of the ot.

We can disagree with his point of view, and try to convince the powers that be of our own, but that’s as far as it goes in my view.

and I can continue to complain in forums like this one and defend my view points. I can also withhold my money from anything that would profit Lucas. It it my money and I have the right.

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#1234464
Topic
Taking a stand against toxic fandom (and other )
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Ronster said:

take bladerunner for instance there is’nt any stupidness about the what 4 different versions and no huge whining over the san diego sneak preview thats never been released.

Blade runner has been released on blu-ray and dvd in I don’t know how many versions. Where as the ot is only released in the version that Lucas wants to shove down our throats. Also I think there is a big difference between a preview version of a film and a version of a film that is the official and basically only version for the first 20 years of its existence.