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#1157852
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The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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ray_afraid said:

Possessed said:

I’ve been in your shoes man. Get whatever closure you need, and cherish the memories, but get out of there. Trust me. The sooner you move on the sooner your can be happy with somebody that wants that with you and then the painful sad memories can turn into fond distant memories. Trust me.

yes yes yes

Also I’m glad I didn’t do this. We’re both somewhat socially awkward so we can at least help each other out here. She’s very thoughtful and sweet. Plus she knows the only other person I know here.

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#1157848
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The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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Mrebo said:

Are you in a better place now or worse compared to three years ago?

Three years ago… would be 2015 now. January 2015. Hmm… That’s tough to answer. I had a clear objective at the time, which I don’t really have anymore, but I was surrounded by toxic personalities, which I don’t really have anymore either. I was doing things and felt respected. Now I have no clear goal, no power, and I’m not sure who my friends are, but at least no one is malicious towards me. It’s a tossup.

I think I know what you mean about good and bad days.

Severe mood shifts based on insignificant details? I feel like George Costanza.

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#1157208
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The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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Good luck everybody. I’m glad for you, coffee. Stick with it, Bingo.

I’m gonna cry myself to sleep tonight. Gonna see that friend tomorrow for the weekly group game night. It’s all I have right now. At least, that’s the way it feels. If anyone told me I’d be where I am today three years ago, I’d have never believed you. Or I’d have tried to do better.

I’m sick of having good days and bad days. The good days are incredible. The bad days are devastating. I’m not unintelligent. I’m not sure how I got here.