sean wookie

C3PX said:

Janskeet said:

What about his music videos? What format were those in back then?

Television. Back then the music channels actually played music videos. You'd turn on MTV and it would be video after video (there was some other programming too, but lots of videos).

Today, I am not even sure why music videos are still made. Seriously? Where are they aired so that they can bring back profit? I wouldn't even know where to go to see a video today if it wasn't for youtube.

 

They are made for sites like Youtube. They get money back in advertising.

I honestly can't believe it. He may of had his problems but he had to go through a lot in his life.

DarkFather said:

I'll play Picard.

I'll be Wesley.

C3PX said:

Sean, you have countless threads, the most recent of which is the brilliantly named, "Please Answer My Question Thread".

Didn't you notice the "wait nvm"?

Why don't I get my own thread.........Wait nvm.

I is so unloved.

C3PX said:

Whoa! Now the real advice starts. I'd listen to Stinky, Sean. He got two (2) invitations for loving from Miss Blessing. This makes him the ultimate ladies man in these parts.

I have no idea how to respond. I'm speechless.

This is her picture: (the picture button isn't working)

http://fc06.deviantart.com/fs27/f/2008/099/1/8/New_ID_by_GetInfected.jpg

PaulisDead2221 said:

sean wookie said:

PaulisDead2221 said:

sean wookie said:

I went to toys r us to check out how much it was and it was only 20 dollars so it looks like I'm getting her the plush and the rose. Maybe a card that says "You are the perfect drug" since that is one of her favorite songs. The card would be too much.

 

A card is too much.

i already said that.

Oh, I thought you were asking--because why would you bring it up in the first place?  I now realize you were talking about the card as a joke.

I thought about it and realized it was a stupid idea.

PaulisDead2221 said:

sean wookie said:

I went to toys r us to check out how much it was and it was only 20 dollars so it looks like I'm getting her the plush and the rose. Maybe a card that says "You are the perfect drug" since that is one of her favorite songs. The card would be too much.

 

A card is too much.

i already said that.

I went to toys r us to check out how much it was and it was only 20 dollars so it looks like I'm getting her the plush and the rose. Maybe a card that says "You are the perfect drug" since that is one of her favorite songs. The card would be too much.

C3PX said:

What I'd do, at the risk of seeming childish (from what you said about her, she seems the sort that would find that charming) would be to get the plush toy and fix the flower in its hand somehow (rubber band, twist tie, or string).

I don't think you'd come off as desperate, but that also depends on how you present it. Since it is something you know she likes, I think the only thing you risk coming off as is thoughtful.

Boost's "I missed you more than I thought I would" for her return is a great line. I'd use it.

"plus all the girls I worked with said the plush would be a good idea"

I have never found taking advice from other girls to be an entirely bad idea. Especially if they are friends of hers or know her personally. They know sides of her you have never seen, and can offer excellent insight or suggestions. You just don't want them, or her, to get the impression you are incapible of coming up with ideas on your own. Personally, I'd think of them a bit like "training wheels", serving a purpose until I got to know her better.

Yeah honestly the girls have been the best source of advice. No offense guys.

TheBoost said:

sean wookie said:

She is going away soon. Should I get her a big Hello Kitty plush for when she comes back? Though I don't want to seem desperate.

 

 Fate is giving you a chance to be super player and take it to the next level. When she gets back, give her the serious eyes and tell her that you missed her more than you thought you would. This is hauntingly ambiguous yet romantic. Then give her the rose previously mentioned.

I used a similar strategem to turn this one girl I was 'hangning out with' into my girlfriend, and later, my wife.

Plush toys are for sick children and dates to the carnival. Go for the red rose. ;)

But I totally seen her give a Domo-kun plush toy a big hug at Toys R Us the other day. I really think she'd like it. Can't I just do that and the red rose? And plus all the girls I worked with said the plush would be a good idea (though one mentioned the rose).

She is going away soon. Should I get her a big Hello Kitty plush for when she comes back? Though I don't want to seem desperate.

C3PX said:

So three kisses. Did she initiate any of them? Even though the first one at the movie was awkward, doesn't sound like she minded it, and she allowed two more kisses to follow. Doesn't sound like you have a lot to worry about.

However, her art more or less scares the living shit out of me. :)

Honestly, I really don't she really is the type to initiate a kiss. She is always so shy. She also had a lot more cleavage this time than last.

C3PX said:

Asteroid-Man said:

I can't believe you asked "you wanna be my girlfriend?" You don't ask, after a few dates it just kind of happens.

 

Yeah, this sort of question is usually abandoned by the time someone reaches the end of high school. Typically you just let things progress, then if for some reason you still really need clarification you can have the "so where are we at in our relationship" conversation sometime further into the relationship when your communication has evolved beyond the 'Did I say the wrong thing?' 'Did I scare her away?' 'Does she still like me?' 'Should I call her or wait for her to call me?' phase

You said the two of you kissed? How did that go? If she was going to have a negative reaction to that, it would have been immediate (or at least I'd think it would have been). If she let you kiss her, I can't imagine her being scared away by you asking her if she wanted to be your girl friend. But seriously, when you are to the point of touching lips, you're usually beyond the point of asking if she likes you or not. Unless she just wants to have a good time with you without really being in a complex relationship, which, if that is the case, is something I would highly recommend you grab hold of and fly with.

Yes we kissed the first time was awkward. It was right after we all started getting up out of our seats. She wasn't expecting it and the lips weren't even. It wasn't my first kiss but it sure felt like it. Our last 2 were before I was getting out of her car (yeah that's right she was driving) this is also when I asked her to be my girl friend. As a bonus here a piece of her art:

[img]http://fc09.deviantart.com/fs48/f/2009/151/1/c/Down_where_we_belong_by_GetInfected.jpg[/img]

Asteroid-Man said:

I can't believe you asked "you wanna be my girlfriend?" You don't ask, after a few dates it just kind of happens.

Fuck man, I wasn't thinking when I said that. I'm sure you've said stupider things than that in your life.

I'm sure she thinks nothing of it.

I have worried more within the past few weeks than I have within the past year. Now I'm worried that I asked her to be my girlfriend I might have scared her away. Any this girl is fucking hard to get a hold of. She has always been this way, her friend said "shes a sweetheart she wouldnt ignore you she doesnt text a lot". So I'm just paranoid.

Oh and I could just try to just call her.

TheBoost said:

sean wookie said:

 

Though she wanted to pay and I of course wouldn't let her pay.

 

 If you're cool being pals and hanging out with no kissy-face or more, more power to you. But if that's the case, you can't do stuff like this anymore.

So are you saying I should or shouldn't let her pay?

i posted this over on The Mangler fourm but you might not all see it over there:

I'm sure we both had tons of fun. We even delayed seeing the movie for about an a hour just to look around Toys R Us and talk, laugh, and have fun.

Maybe I should forget the girlfriend thing for now. We have too much of a good thing.

This girl is different. She is nerdy and kind of wapanese. She has a unique personality. Super friendly and she laughs at my jokes. We laughed so much today it was unreal especially when we played Left 4 Dead and kept on losing. She wants a skink so she said we should go to a pet store next time.

Though she wanted to pay and I of course wouldn't let her pay.

DarkFather said:

sean wookie said:

Yup one of those at least told her she looked nice and she said I looked nice too.

 

I advise against all of those behaviors. If you pay her a compliment, it must be something about her personality or achievements, not about her appearance.

As the male, you need to be taking the lead on your dates. That means you decide the destinations. Don't just go along with anything and everything she says. Not only does that fail to display leadership, but it is neither entertaining or challenging.

Continue escalating kinosthetics. If you neglect to make physical contact often, then the first kiss will be uncomfortable for both of you. I recommend squeezing the nape of her neck, and sliding a palm over the small of her back. Both of these areas of the body are bundles of nerves that are rarely touched, thus she will become naturally more excited.

I'm afraid I think your a maniac now.

C3PX said:

Sounds an awful lot like a date. I guess it all depends on the context of the event. How was it defined before it took place? Did you ask her out?

I seriously can't imagine going out on a date with someone and not knowing if it was actually a date.

 

You know I still have a problem thinking people can even like me. I'd call it paranoia but I'm taking anti-psychoctics for that. But I should of kissed her. I figure trying holding her hand next time would be a good way to find out without going too far.

Yup one of those at least told her she looked nice and she said I looked nice too.

I took a girl out to the movies and out to eat today. And I'm still not sure whether it was a date or not. I paid for everything even when she wanted to pay. There was tons of laughing had. We both dressed nice and she had cleavage and she was very cute. We are going to have a follow up when I get my schedule for next week. She said she wants to check out a pet store the next time we meet. And I gave her a hug and she went home. My questions are:

Was this a date?

How much time should pass between a first and second date (I don't want to appear anxious)?

Should I of kissed her?

That's it for now.