- Post
- #1208360
- Topic
- If you need to B*tch about something... this is the place
- Link
- https://originaltrilogy.com/post/id/1208360/action/topic#1208360
- Time
One of my best friends growing up was a 50-year-old lesbian. It’s all good with me.
I really don’t think you have to say this in order to make your point. You sound like one of those white dudes who says “I have lots of black friends!”
I knew I’d get this response from someone; figures that it’s you. I don’t really care what you think I sound like.
That’s fine. I’m not saying you’re a homophobe, I’m saying there was zero reason to throw that sentence in.
My reasoning was to add a bit more depth to my own story and experiences with gay people, particularly since a young male preteen hanging out with a 50-year-old lesbian in the 80s goes beyond the typical “some of my best friends are [whatever]” statement.
I tire of the virtue signaling performed by whites being offended on behalf of their minority friends. It’s another form of “some of my best friends are [whatever]” and I’m always surprised when the hypocrisy escapes them.
I don’t think that it’s necessarily virtue signaling. If I had friends I’d probably get offended if I perceived a slight against them. Of course I can’t relate, but I would assume I’d do that.