Hello OTers, I am looking for a small bit of advice. About 6 weeks ago a dear friend of mine passed away. Other than three buddies that I have known since childhood and my wife, he was my closest friend that I had met as an adult. His mother asked me last week to share some stories of our friendship at his memorial service, which I was honored to do.
I spent the next several days thinking about what I was going to say, and the night before the service I was up all night writing furiously, editing the best I could as I went. I managed to get a few precious hours of sleep before the 11:00 AM service. When it was time, I read aloud the eulogy that I wrote. It went very well and my friend's family loved it (my friend's father had a huge smile on his face and gave me a big thumbs-up as I left the pulpit). At the post-service reception at the parents' home I was further greeted by more family members that expressed how much the loved the eulogy, and I was sure to discreetly leave a printed copy near a photo of my friend for his parents to find later.
Some friends were unable to attend the memorial and I was asked to post the eulogy online (such as to Facebook) for posterity, which I am happy to do. However, in the days since the memorial, I keep thinking of small details that I had intended to include in the eulogy but escaped me during the frantic night of writing. Also, though fairly well-written, there are a few spots that could use slight clarification, in order to paint a more accurate picture.
It would best honor my friend if I were able to include these edits for the online posting, but I feel an obligation to not post a "Special Edition" of the eulogy thst isn't exactly as I read aloud, at least not without some sort of disclaimer. I am asking you folks what my best option would be... such as posting the eulogy exactly as first written, but with a short introduction and postscript that addresses my unintentional omissions. Or, perhaps include the edits where I intend them to go but place such text in brackets [seems a little distracting].
Thanks in advance for your input.