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- #607624
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- Let's Talk Instant Gratification in Regards to Media.
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- https://originaltrilogy.com/post/id/607624/action/topic#607624
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I find your comments rather enlightening, Anchorhead. And don't worry - none offense taken. I'll try and address some of your points on the personal spectrum, but save you -- and everyone else -- the trouble of block quotes ;)
I consider myself in the middle ground regarding my generation's problems. I like to think I could handle myself better than Zuckerberg in an interview, but I'm certainly no expert. For me to reach eye contact with a person often requires serious attention to the idea on my end, for instance. Or on a lesser scale, casual conversation is kind of difficult for me. If I'm not interested in the conversation at hand you can expect a lot of "uh-huh"s or a sudden departure on my part. Even among friends, I'm this way; sometimes, I just always have to be doing something to be engaged. That's why I always fall back on multiplayer video games with friends: it's solid interaction without the fear of losing interest in the person. It wasn't a progression or anything due to technology, I've just sort of always been this way. Only recently did I honestly get a good grasp on the idea; I tended to place the blame on others not showing interest in me, or whatever.
However, my social skills are not a good measure of my intellect. You must understand, though, that more often than not you're seeing my best here. I tend to put a lot of thought into what I say, especially on a serious subject like this. That said, I like to think I'm a smart enough person that I'll be able to get by in the world regardless of whatever situations come my way.
What's really interesting on the global scale is that I've seen both in person and on the internet how people of my generation often lament the loss of their childhood despite the fact that so many elements of it are available at the tip of their fingers. I've been there. I was there for a very long time; only three years ago, I would have told you (given the time and agency) how much better cartoons were from the '90s, how this element of commercialism I'd never noticed really pisses me off, whatever. And I still reach that point sometimes. However, I think the difference between me and the aforementioned is I know it's not the right outlook. Of course, I'll slip here and there -- but as long as I acknowledge that it's a shitty way to look at life, always lamenting what you only think is gone, I'm above where I was before. I'm plenty mature, but there's still a lot of growing to be done and I (usually) understand that.
By starting out with what you told your high-school teacher, you really struck a chord with me. I don't know if you expected me to say right off the bat "I've been there" but I really have. In fact, I'm still there. Nobody else could understand what it's like to get a mohawk at 3 AM in your friend's bathroom the night before your graduation. Nobody else could understand the feeling of isolation spurred on by a lack of connection to anyone else's problems in my immediate life. Nobody else could understand WHY I missed my friends I hadn't seen in years so much. The problem with experiences in high school is, as interesting as they are in the moment and upon personal reflection, they're... well, personal. Your life's experiences, then and now, shape why whatever memories you wanted to highlight were so important and it would take a damn good writer to make them matter to anyone else. I'm tempted to link that monologue I mentioned in my first post; it discusses more personal elements than ones people could relate to, though. It's not really related to instant gratification or the like as much as it is a realization coming from a kid who probably wasn't in a good place and was falling back on times he wanted back.
Hm. This has got me thinking about hedonism in relation to instant gratification, but perhaps that's a subject for another time.