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TV's Frink

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#1219914
Topic
The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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moviefreakedmind said:

To put my terrible advice more eloquently:

If you’re looking for a relationship because you want to share life with someone interesting and intelligent and helpful, then go for it. If you’re looking for a relationship because you’re depressed and think that a relationship will make you less depressed, then don’t because I have a strong feeling that relationships built on that mindset will not work.

I shouldn’t have generalized earlier, I admit.

This is better put.

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#1219913
Topic
The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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moviefreakedmind said:

TV’s Frink said:

moviefreakedmind said:

Basing your happiness entirely on a partner is a really bad idea.

Who said entirely? I agree that shouldn’t be your entire focus.

It was pretty heavily implied in the posts that the expectation was that a relationship with an ideal woman would solve the bulk of the problems in life.

TV’s Frink said:

DuracellEnergizer said:

CHEWBAKAspelledwrong said:

Sometimes I feel I’m missing the same thing from my life, Hand. But it’s not something I expect from my regular friends. I think we both just need a girl…

Many of us here need a girl. It would solve some of the deeper emotional problems.

Honestly, it probably wouldn’t. Every situation is different, but just having a girlfriend generally isn’t a cure-all.

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#1219881
Topic
The ability to create polls and the ignore feature.
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I never really understood the ignore feature anyway. You still had to scroll past the posts, you just didn’t see the actual text. Functionally it’s basically the same.

JEDIT: The “who is ignoring you” thread was fun though, so if the ignore feature is brought back, I really hope we can see a list of who is ignoring us again.

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#1219880
Topic
Politics 2: Electric Boogaloo
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chyron8472 said:

oojason said:

Good people who frequent this thread on all things politics…

Jay said:

…there’s no reason to limit all politics to a single thread any longer. Feel free to debate different issues in different threads and avoid those you don’t want to involve yourself with.

A quick look at the Index thread for the Culture section - featuring a few threads listed on various political subjects which some of you may wish to continue with - or start afresh on a new political topic.

 

But what if we want to limit all politics to a single thread?

What we want really isn’t relevant.

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#1219875
Topic
Random Thoughts
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moviefreakedmind said:

TV’s Frink said:

Handman said:

LuckyGungan2001 said:

I never go into the politics thread because I don’t give a shit about politics, much less American politics, and I feel I miss out on most of the drama that goes on within this forum by doing so.

Yeah, it’s great to be able to ignore that section whenever I feel like it and still enjoy the threads here. I was a bit resistant to the change, but it makes sense and overall I think it was the right choice now.

I think you missed the point.

Yeah, I don’t get it.

Some people like drama.

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#1219873
Topic
The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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moviefreakedmind said:

Having a partner usually just makes everything worse. I don’t get why everyone thinks that having some girlfriend or boyfriend would make them less miserable.

I think everyone here knows not to take your advice, and you’d admit I’m right about for sure, but this is still terrible advice. It won’t magically fix all your problems, but it can certainly help your quality of life. And maybe you have a long lasting relationship with that person and maybe have kids too and maybe you live a nice life. But I know you don’t want that, and that’s fine. But for others who want that, it’s terrible advice.

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#1219843
Topic
Episode VIII : The Last Jedi - Discussion * <strong><em>SPOILER THREAD</em></strong> *
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LukeWarmTaunTaun said:

NeverarGreat said:

Collipso said:

when i saw the scene my first thought was “how the heck is she alive?”

People have survived being exposed to the vacuum of space before. Also remember that she is surrounded by the air that got blown out of the ship, which she could have subconsciously kept around her using the Force.

What really strains credulity is someone surviving three of their limbs being hacked off and being barbecued beside a river of lava, or literally being cut in half and falling down a bottomless shaft.

Force users are weird like that.

go home bro, youre drunk

No, Star Wars is drunk.

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#1219839
Topic
The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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DuracellEnergizer said:

CHEWBAKAspelledwrong said:

Sometimes I feel I’m missing the same thing from my life, Hand. But it’s not something I expect from my regular friends. I think we both just need a girl…

Many of us here need a girl. It would solve some of the deeper emotional problems.

Honestly, it probably wouldn’t. Every situation is different, but just having a girlfriend generally isn’t a cure-all.