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#102412
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Girl Problem
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davis here is another tip, but again you need to be very careful about when about how you do this. and start doing it only after you guys are more then aquatences. make fun of her in very small but nice ways.

e.g. what ill do with one of my friends is if ever i am talkin about something small, i might add into the sentence, its small jsut like you. then she will be all taken aback and be like 'mee small' and after that you just have to go with the flow there, be like well you are pretty small, then do things by trying to turn it into something that doesnt matter by saying something like ' being small isnt a bad thing...' this can be a very fun thing to do for both of you if your not super nervous that is the only time to even try to do it.

asking her for cofee would be a great thing to do.

and everyone is right get those pic off the net asap. I dont think bossk wanted you to actually put them up.
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#102219
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Girl Problem
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i dont know if they are right or not, i would say that 2 months would be more then enough time to get into a good relationship with someone. infact from my experience if you start off to slow you'll ruin your chances to get into a relationship. its funny her at university me and my buddies have come with model. with girls there are 2 ladders, the relationship ladder and the friends ladder. and the further up you get on one of then the further you have to jump to get onto the other. if you start a relationship really slowly you will by default go up the friends ladder.

but i can understand from experence it is very hard to follow my advice when it comes down to it. so your goal would be to get into a position where you guys can stay in touch outside of school. another thing is all of those signs you mentioned are very interesting like they said b4 they could mean she wants to be friends or something else, in either case she likes you which is good.

as for the quite person thing i know its tough, trust me i was really really quite in highschool, but you have to break out of it. i guess it had to take the incident i mentioned above to make me do it but still i did. and i went to a highschool of 400 too, my class had 60 students in it.

oh another thing my advice b4 about showering her with attention that might be a bad idea, i cant call it cus i dont know you or her. these are the two possible situations and you can decide what to do. she will either like you for it because unlike other guys you are interested in her interests and who she is. the other possiblity is that she will get annoyed cus every body is always bothering her about that kind of stuff and she doesnt like to tell everyone who she is. if that is the case what i would suggest is to find a common ground and use that a a starting point and spread from there. or try my trick where you find something unique about you and talk to her about it.
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#102205
Topic
Girl Problem
Time
ok my friend i need a lil info are you in the same grade as her. what do you know about her.

k what i would do is try to find situations where you and her will be doing something at the same time. if you cant think of one find one. if she's looking for a book in the library you go look for one too, something like this. but there is a very fine line you NEED to interact with her when you are in there, ask her things, talk to her about things. constantly ask her about her, girls love attention. talk about school, talk about events that are funny. find things she is interested in, (learn about them in your own time) then talk to her aobut them. maybe she is a closet SW fan.( again this doesnt mean ask her directly, you need to probe around the topic). I know this is going to come off as really complicated but ill tell you this much i used to be in the same boat as you. there was a girl in my senoir year that i liked so for like 2 months i talked to her and i sent her flower on valintines day and so on. anyway i could have asked her to grad in like march of that year instead i waited till may and by that time she was going with someone else. this happened cus i didnt jump on the oppertunity, i'll never in my life make that mistake again.


act yourself.( that doesnt mean talk about Scifi things all the time) if you act like something your not, then you are going to come off as being very odd. try to relax when you are with her. And if she doesnt like who you are then she is not worth the effort its that simple.

oh and here is a trick that i often use now, find something that you have done that is really really cool. e.g. ill talk about how i have gone ice climbing, or that i am scuba diver or another good one is how i have worked with ESL students for 8 years and went to japan on exchange. this will only work if you have the right experences though.

your first goal is to get her email address so you can talk to her on MSN and stuff. i swear MSN is gold if you can get a very good indication of whats going on.

thats all i can offer for now cus i dont know that much about the situation.

oh and i almost forgot always displace confidence (even if you dont feel confident, bit your lip and be it), and be free spirited.
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#101865
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The Pope
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In my opinion life begins once an organium can begin to preform all of its internal opertation independantly, that is if it were to be left alone and no one aided it life by getting food or would starve to death. that is why i consider a baby life and a fetus a fetus. if you were to leave a fetus alone it would not be able to function properly with out the aid of a mothers womb. to grow a fetus needs already digested food, to function a fetus needs a blood supply that is not its own. that is why i dont consider contraception the begining of life. the birth is, thats why we celebrate birthdays not contraception days, cus your birthday it is the anniversary of your life begining. your only commiting murder if you forcefully take a life of something that would have been able to survive by itself had you not acted upon it. thats jsut the way i see it.
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#101837
Topic
So, are all the Stormtroopers from IV-VI clones?..
Time
hey guys here's a plot hole for you. if you are a planet who can by themselves creat armies that can take over/protect an entire galaxy, why wouldn't you yourself use that power to conquor. and you cant say that they weren't conquers, where would they get the technology and the know how to create armies otherwise. the clone armies were very well made with well trained soldiers and all.
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#101831
Topic
The Pope
Time
Quote

Originally posted by: JediSage
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Originally posted by: Asha
The line is from Exodus ... I'm on my way out the door, or else I'd drudge up the exact verse #. The line has the potential to relate to the definition of human life in that the termination of the pregnancy does not demand a "life for a life." I say "potential" because, like most of the good book, you can find lines in the bible that will provide a flimsy pretext to support just about everything. Although I'm afraid nothing in the bible is quite as flimsy as using speculative science fiction as a way of framing a discussion on homosexuality.


Who's using SF to frame the discussion?


no one is, she (not sure) is mearly refering to the fact that if someone where to use SF as an arguement they would be, and should be grilled for it.

but i not getting involved in this ill say now that i am on the side of abortion and as for gay rights, personally i dont care either way. it would really show what kind of society we are if they had fewer rights then everyone else though.

On the side Asha are you indian, cus that sounds like an indian name.
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#101819
Topic
If true, this will change the world
Time
Quote

Originally posted by: ricarleite
Even if scientists found out oil is growing from thin air, and it's not (I don't care what a oil-company financed "researcher" says on the news), I'd still recommend searching for clean, renewable sources of energy, like solar evergy and hydrogen.


you dont understand, do you know how much oil it takes to make a oil panel and is used in windmills and hte creation of hydrogen. it is very difficult to use those energy supplies if you dont have a supply of oil. the idea behind them is that once they are made you dont need to use oil to keep them running.

the biggest thing is to create a viable commercal vecihle that doesnt use patrolium. that hasnt been done yet. hydrogen is not a good option cus we cant store it safely 'yet'. and electric cars just dont work.
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#101233
Topic
bad luck
Time
Hey I been having the most horrible month, its just been one bad thing after another and its driving me crazy. just wondering if anyone else just has those time in life when all you get is bad luck, to the point where it'll be sunny and you decide to go out and right when you step out for a walk it starts raining. then as soon as you step back in it clears up. this happened to me last week, and its only a smalll example of te type of luck i been having.
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#101010
Topic
Is the MottiSignal (TM) off for good?
Time
Quote

Originally posted by: Darth Chaltab
once you say jimbo
warblers will get our number
turn us into lumber
we'll all be caught in limbo

then we'll all saw jimbo
and warbler will go slumber


I can have some fun with this.

"If you say Jimbo, Warbler is going to learn our addresses, hunt us down, grind us into firewood and send us to purgatory, (where Jimbo also is according to that book i found) And after Warbler kills us all and we meet Jimbo in limbo, Warbler is going to take a nap because killing us exhausted him beyond beliefe."


that was fucking awesome.
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#100708
Topic
Office Space
Time
yeeahh hey peter wwwhats happening.

so i gonna need to ask you to come in tomorrow at uhhhh saay nniine, if you could do that it would be greeat.


oh and peter, i going to need to you come in on suuunday tooo at the same time, lost some ppl this week, and need to play catchup. thanks a bunch byee.