RicOlie_2

Sorry to hear that. 😦

As promised, I’ll say a prayer or two for you.

On the bright side, that bar doesn’t matter for Frink’s edit. He could do something creative with them and it would only be a good thing…

DuracellEnergizer said:

i should get singing lessons. I believe I have the larnyx for singing, but my social anxiety disorder has hampered it.

That might be good for you, especially if you do have the talent for it.

Imperialscum should be Little Miss Contrary.

Sure, there’s nothing wrong with just asking people to pray for you without saying what for.

That’s always good to know. I usually include each intention in my prayers for a year, or until the prayer is answered/no longer relevant, so it’s nice to know when I don’t have to pray for something anymore before my prayer list gets too heavy. 😄

Indeed. I may not have a whole lot of experience with love, but dwelling in the past never did anyone any good. Your life will pass you by before you know it if you don’t move on.

Why is the petition to me…? I can’t force him to stop using ellipses…

Post Praetorian’s always up in the wee hours of the morning (and sometimes sleeping in the wee hours of the afternoon).

That’s what I thought. I don’t understand the whole “protection from religion” thing. People would think I was crazy if I demanded protection from non-religion…

TV’s Frink said:

We’ve swerved into politics somehow, but our country grants us freedom of AND from religion. “In God We Trust” fails the second part of that.

Out of curiosity, is this fact, or just your personal interpretation of the constitution? The reason I ask is because I often hear people make a distinction, saying that it grants freedom of but not from religion.

I doubt they discussed it, but they had to have had some way of referring to it, especially if they were a doctor…

TV’s Frink said:

This thread will not go the way I’m intending, so I left the title general enough to cover all the other ways it will go.

With that said, I’ll open with this - why are curse words like fuck and shit offensive? I have never understood this and I’m curious.

I just remembered one reason I’d read about for fuck and shit being offensive: after William of Normandy conquered England in 1066, the ruling class and aristocracy of England became French. English was a still a very Germanic language at that time, but eventually, the (Old) French and (Old) English of the time merged. However, though many words of Germanic origin, like fuck and shit, were not yet considered offensive, they did have a strong association to the language of the lower classes. Over time, the subjects they were associated with became taboo, and the words began to take on an offensive meaning, which grew over time.

Words of French or Latin origin, like defecate, urinate, copulate, fesces, etc. are not considered offensive because they belonged to the language of the upper classes (and eventually scientists), and were not used by the common people.

That’s part of the reason, anyway, but this isn’t the case in every language, or with every swear word.

moviefreakedmind said:

Possessed is right. Catholicism didn’t come around until at least 250 years after the death of Christ, which in itself is LONG before Russian Orthodoxy (Russia wasn’t even a country yet, let alone having any exposure to Christianity). Churches in the Bible were not united in any way other than their connection to Paul, but seemed to exist purely to serve the people in whatever Roman province they were located in.

This is highly debatable. Irenaeus, writing in c. 180, listed all the bishops of Rome (the popes) up to his time, and described and defended the Church’s hierarchy and Apostolic Tradition.

St. Ignatius, writing in the late first century, also writes about bishops, the sacraments, etc. in a way that is virtually identical to what the Church teaches now. I’ve read some of his writings, so I’m not just basing that judgement off of Wikipedia or some website.

The notion that the churches were not connected is false, as surviving letters from the first and second centuries indicate. There were churches that did not follow the same teachings as the main body of churches, but their version of Christianity was condemned as heretical by Irenaeus and other writers of the time.

EDIT: Sorry to derail your thread, Frink. I’ll post an on topic post in a minute. 😉

Yeah, nigger has a much less serious connotation here in Canada, where we were never really into the slave thing, than it seems to down south.

I would guess that it simply has to do with the fact that people who are devout followers of their religions are in the minority in many modern societies.

Being offended by swear words probably just has to do with social conditioning. “Oh my God” has a clear religious connection, meaning that those who aren’t religious wouldn’t have a problem with it, but various four letter words are connected to vulgar ideas and are perpetuated as being offensive from generation to generation. The offensive nature of the words typically wears off over time, as people become used to hearing them more and more.

Possessed said:

About curse words being offensive to Christians, neither God nor the bible dictates which words are curse words and which aren’t. People/society did. So if people/society decide they aren’t offensive anymore, why would they still be a sin?

Simply by virtue of their being offensive and often vulgar or blasphemous. They aren’t intrinsically wrong, and there’s certainly nothing wrong about having a conversation like this. There’s nothing immoral about listening to music with swear words in it, as a priest assured me once. However, it says in one of St. Paul’s letters, “Never let evil talk pass your lips; say only the good things men need to hear.” Swearing, slander, gossip, unkind criticism, verbal abuse, etc. all fall under this category. I don’t think anyone would argue that swears are good, nor would they disagree that many find them offensive.

All that being said, I don’t think swearing is a very serious sin (and isn’t always a sin), unless it is done with the intention of offending or angering someone.

Also worthy of consideration is the fact that swears are often used when angry, and are thus associated with anger, and that swears in a number of languages are also blasphemous; i.e. they are religious words used in a disrespectful way.

LuckyGungan2001 said:

I think curse words bother us because we are told they should.

That’s certainly part of it. Non-native speakers are often more comfortable using English swear words than swears in their own language, because they haven’t developed that sensitivity towards them. When I was first exposed to fuck at the late age of 10, I didn’t realize it was offensive, and I remember that I only gradually began to find it offensive.

The existence of swear words and the fact that so many people find them offensive is fascinating to me. There’s no apparent logical reason for it, except in cases where the word actually has an offensive concept associated with it.

An explanation I’ve seen, however, is that words associated with taboos can become offensive. Fuck, for instance, became offensive during a very prudish time. Shit and other words associated with using the loo are offensive because it is often considered poor taste and vulgar to talk about what one does on the toilet. Religious swears are considered offensive for fairly obvious reasons, at least for religious people.

I think that would be better than having him just say it. I find the idea of him worrying to himself about what is legal as he’s being killed much funnier than him actually asking it.

TV’s Frink said:

RicOlie_2 said:

Also, I’m offended by frivolous uses of “Oh my God” and “Jesus Christ” and related phrases, so I will gladly avoid any words that offend you if you avoid those that offend me.

Having been raised entirely in a secular environment, these phrases are nearly second nature to me. However I do try to limit their use when I’m thinking about it. Feel free to point it out when I slip up and I’ll happily apologize. But only because I like you. If Dek asks me to avoid swearing I’m just going to tell him to [REDACTED] off, because I don’t like him.

If I were Dek, I might spend another ten pages trying to defend “oh my god” which is different than “oh my God.” 😉

That’s fair. I’ll bow out now, but somewhat reluctantly, as we finally seem to have gotten you up to a healthy post count. 😉

Exactly. And most people I know don’t find it offensive, so maybe it’s also a regional difference.

Also, I’m offended by frivolous uses of “Oh my God” and “Jesus Christ” and related phrases, so I will gladly avoid any words that offend you if you avoid those that offend me.

TV’s Frink said:

RicOlie_2 said:

DominicCobb said:

Frink just explained it to you. The fact that retard is interchangeable as an insult with stupid and idiot is what makes it offensive. You’re basically calling mentally retarded people stupid idiots.

The problem being that nobody I know calls them mentally retarded. It’s a dated term. Perhaps older generations, or legal documents, or people in certain regions still use it, but it is fast falling into complete disuse.

facepalm

Why are you guys bending over backwards trying to defend the use of retarded as an insult? If it’s a dated term, there’s even less reason to use it as an insult. And calling yourself “retarded” is still an insult, you’re just insulting yourself.

I don’t follow. I just find it annoying that you call out people for using the word when it’s main use nowadays is as an insult, just like “moron” and “idiot.”

I was also a little curious to find out what the difference was, and though I’m still not entirely sure why you so vehemently oppose it being used as a pejorative term, I’ll bow out. I agree that it’s a silly thing to argue about–the problem is that I enjoy arguing about silly things…

As a side note, I have seen “mental idiocy” used, so that sense of the word isn’t entirely extinct.

EDIT: And as a side note, I find it offensive when people use “autistic” as an insult.

DominicCobb said:

Frink just explained it to you. The fact that retard is interchangeable as an insult with stupid and idiot is what makes it offensive. You’re basically calling mentally retarded people stupid idiots.

The problem being that nobody I know calls them mentally retarded. It’s a dated term. Perhaps older generations, or legal documents, or people in certain regions still use it, but it is fast falling into complete disuse.