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#749698
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If you need to B*tch about something... this is the place
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That's not true.  Everybody feels that way at a time, at least I did once, but it will get better.  Things will fall into place.  I know it's hard for you to get a job, but if I were you I would focus all of your energy on that.  It would save your life.  Any job you can find.  I'm not underselling how difficult it will be or saying it's your fault you don't already have one, I'm just saying that should be your number one goal for a variety of reasons.  The first one is obvious, it would help your family.  But also it would help with the inner struggles you are having.  You have a job, you'll feel better about yourself.  You'll get comfortable around the people you work with, you will inevitably make friends with at least some of your coworkers.  These new friends and your improved sense of self worth at having a job will boost your overall confidence.  Trust me my friend, getting a job will start a landslide of improvement for you.  (once again, not criticizing you for not already having one.)

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#749697
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The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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I know how you guys feel, I used to be that way, and I can tell you the most important thing is to just ignore those feelings, be yourself, and have confidence.  I know that sounds generic, but really it works.  Women are more attracted to confidence than they are good looks/buffness/whatever.  Most are anyway.  Even in my college sociology class they said looks in a mate are way more important to men than they are to women (key word being "mate", not "fling").  Women mostly think people are creeps if they act perverted.  I personally know alot of couples where the man is marginally less attractive (not that being attractive matters in life, but this pertains to the "women thinking I'm a creep" thing) than the woman, and it works because the man is comfortable.

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#749590
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Your favo[u]rite directors
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imperialscum said:

Possessed said:

I don't believe the question was "Do you care about directors".

The reasonable options to answer that question would be "yes or "no".

The reasonable answer to the current thread's question would be "Joe, Bob and Rob" or none at all since I openly am not interested in the topic of the thread so even I don't understand why I'm posting in it

 ftfy

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#749185
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The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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Possessed said:

Also, for what it's worth, I've decided to try cutting out alcohol and increasing marijuana to compensate

 If anybody's been wondering, I made it about 3 hours after posting this.  XD Lol.  Although I did manage to increase the marijuana, but it wasn't to compensate for anything.

Although I actually have slowed down a bit on the drinking, not so much on purpose or intentionally, just haven't craved it as much.  I don't know how good that really is, as it is not likely to last, but at least it's not giving me withdrawals since it's a natural slowing down, and it gives me a chance to rest up a bit.  Of course I'm still drinking every day, and even during the day, but instead of starting when I first wake up like I was, I've been making it til about 2 in the afternoon now.  :)