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#1138118
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In what way I should watch a Star Wars Marathon?
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I sat through a Star Wars marathon earlier this year, starting from Phantom Menace, through to ROTJ, and it was awful. By the time I got to the good stuff, everyone else was fatigued and sleeping. We had TFA, but I was the only one up by the end of ROTJ, and I was kind of sick of it all by then.

If I had to do it again, I’d just watch Star Wars and call it a day.

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#1137779
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The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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ChainsawAsh said:

Bingowings said:

I apologise for being in hermit mode myself. Sorry to read you are feeling low Warb. I hope things pick up for you soon. And it’s great that despite our troubles we are making good use of this space Ender constructed for us and we are breaking down the frequent misconception that these sorts of issues are rare or something to be ashamed of. Ash good friends don’t avoid friends when they are having a hard time. That’s when good friends step up to the plate and fill it with yummy beans on toast. My ticks have just got worse and worse. It’s effecting my work. But I have my first session with a counsellor on Tuesday and I’m taking professional relationship advice on Wednesday. It a really hard time. Saturday night I was constantly on the edge of tears, last night I was on caffeine free caffeine overdose, so hyperaware, jittery, quaking, shaking, racing thoughts. I never been in this state before so it’s all new and scary stuff. My soon to be ex-partner has gone from yelling at me to stop to becoming genuinely concerned for my health. It kind of helps but it it also makes things a bit difficult when it comes to implementing the changes I need to make. I’ve started looking for places to move to. Knowing that Christmas is soon and that once the decorations come down I have to man up and announce my intentions is adding pressure. I wish someone else could do it all for me to be honest but I can’t. Restless legs at night are making sleep difficult too. But help is on its way and I have a new pal at work who is going through something similar. As Leela used to say “if you are wounded, find a man with scars” so keep the thread going because there seems to be a lot of need for it at the moment. And we can all help each other by breaking down stigma.

Sounds like you’re taking some positive steps. That’s great to hear. It’s scary as hell, of course, but the right way forward often is.

I wish there was something I could say to help, but all I can say is to hang in there and you’ll pull through. It looks like you’re headed in the right direction.

And agreed, big thanks to Ender for creating this space for us. It’s been very helpful to me since I’ve come back, even though it probably doesn’t seem that way.

Agreed.

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#1137773
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The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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Bingowings said:

Good friends don’t avoid friends when they are having a hard time.

I cut myself off from everybody last week, due to circumstances that made me realize they’re not all good friends, telling anyone who wants to talk to me, feel free to and I’ll be more than happy, and nobody has. I have to make the effort to talk to anyone, and it’s draining as hell that I don’t get anything back from it. Everyone is all busy with their own things, and I’m once again a bystander.