This argument has become so pointless. Meanings and intentions have been reframed out of existence. Whatever your point originally was is practically irrelevant at this point. You say you meant one thing, but I saw something else. I admit I see the thing you said you meant, and I acknowledge the veracity of that point, but I what you don't seem to understand is that I do not consider your example "so offensive as to consume the whole argument." What your failing to grasp is that my point is simply that the comparison is extreme and unapt. Whether the meaning of your original post is what I said it was doesn't matter. You can deny it (and surely you didn't mean to equate homosexuality with pedophilia, and I never said you did; but it truly does seem like your point was in defense of people who don't accept homosexuality, which, as I've said before, is an uncomfortable topic but an okay one to discuss, though my issue was simply in the comparison used to frame the argument) and that's fair, surely you understand your intentions better than I, though I know for certain the implications of your post were obvious whether intended or not.
But don't you see the vicious cycle we're in?
You make a post that can seemingly be construed to have two different meanings.
I say your meaning is limited and potentially offensive.
You say that wasn't your meaning and that I'm being overly sensitive for seeing that.
I say that I can see the meaning you say it has, but I try to explain why your argument has another limited and potentially offensive meaning.
Then you say (again) that wasn't your meaning and that I'm being overly sensitive for seeing that.
But I say (again) that I can see the meaning you say it has, but I try to explain why your argument has another limited and potentially offensive meaning.
Basically I am not saying that your point is invalid or untrue. I am simply trying to explain why the comparison you made is limited and potentially offensive. What had frustrated me is that you failed to see that. I do not fail to see your point. And what I'm continuing to argue about is something else, and that is my interpretation of your post is not some insane overreaction, it is actually a fairly rational reaction to a very unfortunate implication. You reframed the argument to be an attack on me for not understanding your original point, so I'm merely trying to explain why I saw a different point, and why that point seemed false. I am not ignoring what you say your original point was. Just trying to explain my reasoning.
Thankfully you have finally admitted that the comparison was limiting, which is what I was trying to say all along. But you still think that I am being overly sensitive and irrational. It's unfortunate because I'm really anything but. I'm actually very reasonable.
Perhaps you were right and I was too quick to see your original post as an argument in defense of homophobes when I should have been focusing on what you say was your larger point. But perhaps you too were a little too quick to judge my argument as blind and irrational oversensitivity when the conclusions I gleamed were apparent, whether intended or not. If what you say about your intentions are true, I'll take you at your word and chalk up my interpretation to your post as a misunderstanding. I will say that your original post was not clear as to your supposed intentions, but maybe I have not been clear as well (probably I have not - I dare say I haven't proofread any of these posts). I'll say it one more time, just so there's no more misunderstanding. My argument was simply that I did not find the comparison you made to be appropriate. I was never disagreeing or ignoring what you say was your point. I was just explaining why I thought that wasn't your point and why what I thought was your point was in bad form.
Surely you can see now that much of this argument has been due to miscommunication. I stand by my interpretation of your post in so far as I still believe my conclusions had a solid basis in that post and my criticisms had a solid basis in reason. But if you say that was not your intention, I'm willing to accept that and move on. Hopefully you too can see how I was never arguing against your intended point, just arguing whether it was your intended point.
I do not and have never considered you a bigot, ender, and I hope you don't think I have. You're a cool dude, but obviously we come from different values and different upbringings so we naturally have very different POVs. It is only natural, I think, that we tend to argue more fervently for issues that align with out political views. Hopefully you can see where my interpretation came from, and understand now that I was subsequently defending that interpretation. And hopefully you believe me when I say that I challenge my beliefs daily, constantly looking at the arguments from the other side to fully understand the issue and those who do not agree with me. Just because I have strong opinions doesn't mean I can't understand those who disagree with those opinions. I'm always down for some open-eyed thinking.