Guys, here's the thing.
He's not making a movie to please you. He's making a movie to tell a story that he wants to tell that works well within the Star Trek universe. If you can't deal with that, well, don't go see it, and enjoy the 500 other episodes/movies that you can watch instead. You say you want more Star Trek, then bitch about how the last X amount of Star Trek-related TV and movies have ruined the franchise.
Do what I do with Star Wars: Pretend that those last X amount of things that ruined the franchise never happened. Watch the things that you like - TOS and DS9, or TOS and TNG, or TNG and Voyager, whatever, and just pretend that the rest don't exist and never did. Then, ignore anything else that comes out that doesn't look good, instead of constantly bitching about it because, guess what, THAT WON'T FUCKING CHANGE ANYTHING.
This philosophy has been working well for me - the films that came out in 1977, 1980, and 1983 exist, as do Timothy Zahn's Thrawn Trilogy. After that, nothing ever happened, and I'm ignoring any new Star Wars that comes out that has to tie to the new movies and TV shows that don't exist to me. I don't bitch about them, because it won't change anything. They'll still be made, and there will still be people who will watch them. But you don't have to.
I, for one, am going to give JJ's Trek a chance. Why? Because until I hear anything about the story and can base my judgment on that, nothing about the movie has made me think it'll be bad.
CG? Who cares anymore? All big-budget sci-fi movies today have tons of CG. You can't not like a movie solely because of the effects.
The ship doesn't look like the TOS ship? No shit - that ship was designed in the early '60s. It would look dated as hell today. And I think the new one looks pretty sweet while maintaining the basic overall design of the original.
The bridge doesn't look like the TOS bridge? See above - that would look RETARDED today, I'm sorry but it's true. If you're going to make something that takes place 200 years from now, the technology has to feel like it's 200 years ahead of us, or the audience isn't going to accept it. TOS accomplished that in the '60s, but today people wouldn't accept that since that looks, well, like it's from the '60s.
If you're willing to give it a chance, don't bitch until you've seen it. If you aren't willing to give it a chance, then pretend it's not happening and quit your whining and watch the hundreds of other Star Treks you could watch that you *do* like.