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The Place to Go for Emotional Support — Page 115

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dahmage said:

Yeah, good luck. At the end of the day, you need to make your own choices, especially when it comes to relationships. People on the internet don’t know the reality of your situation.

Very true.

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My life hasn’t gone too well. I’ve been afraid to tell people but my anxiety has been hurting my everyday life. I was bullied in school to the point that I wound up homeschooled in eighth grade. I’ve tried to do things and failed more often than not. I haven’t been able to talk or make eye contact with people for the longest time. I know now that my scripts were stupid. I’ve been breaking down more and more. I’m starting to think things can get better now. I’m getting help. I want to apologize for bothering anyone, that’s a gigantic fear of mine. I want to let you all know I’m sorry.

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Handman said:

… in tears. She didn’t see.

Sorry, Handman. I wish it had gone better for you.

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Handman said:

… in tears. She didn’t see.

You mean it’s not at all mutual?

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SONIC RACES THROUGH THE GREEN FIELDS.
THE SUN RACES THROUGH A BLUE SKY FILLED WITH WHITE CLOUDS.
THE WAYS OF HIS HEART ARE MUCH LIKE THE SUN. SONIC RUNS AND RESTS; THE SUN RISES AND SETS.
DON’T GIVE UP ON THE SUN. DON’T MAKE THE SUN LAUGH AT YOU.

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MWilson said:

My life hasn’t gone too well. I’ve been afraid to tell people but my anxiety has been hurting my everyday life. I was bullied in school to the point that I wound up homeschooled in eighth grade. I’ve tried to do things and failed more often than not. I haven’t been able to talk or make eye contact with people for the longest time. I know now that my scripts were stupid. I’ve been breaking down more and more. I’m starting to think things can get better now. I’m getting help. I want to apologize for bothering anyone, that’s a gigantic fear of mine. I want to let you all know I’m sorry.

I am quite certain you have not been any sort of bother…regardless it is good to know you are seeking help for other hardships you might be experiencing…this life is certainly rife with difficulties, particularly for those who might be more sensitive in nature. Self-awareness comes with a very real vulnerability to those who might be less so…the natural inclination of the latter being to tear down others. I wish you well and hope you will have the opportunity to allow your spirit to settle…school is at times a harsh environment from which it might take a few years to properly recover, but do have hope that maturity (of both yourself and your peers) definitely will bring about more peaceful interactions and fewer conflicts.

You may certainly message me personally if you would like to talk further.

I was once…but now I’m not… Further: zyzzogeton

“It wasn’t the flood that destroyed the pantry…”

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I don’t really want to discuss this further.

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Handman said:

I don’t really want to discuss this further.

and you don’t have too.

But we are here if you change your mind.

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Warbler said:

Handman said:

I don’t really want to discuss this further.

But we are here if you change your mind.

While this is definitely true, I think we should talk about getting separate rooms or getting a bigger lobby or something. It’s getting awfully cramped and not gonna lie a few of you could use a shower.

But in all seriousness man. Been there. It does suck, but at least now you aren’t stuck anymore. Now you can at least start picking up the pieces and moving on.

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Possessed said:

Now you can at least start picking up the pieces and moving on.

And now I’m really reminded of Fleetwood Mac’s “Gold Dust Woman”.

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Would those that pray please pray for family from my church. This family I have known all my life. The parents had a son couple of years older than I am. He had rare disease that caused dwarfism among other difficulties. He and his parents preserved throughout his life. They had every reason to be angry with God, but they were not. He and his parents were an inspiration. For over 40 years he and his parents have had to struggle and cope with this and the last few years have especially difficult. He was in and out of the hospital, had a lot of difficulty with breathing and with talking. At one point they had to have Tracheal tube inserted. Today, we have heard that he passed away. I ask those that pray to pray for his parents and their own family.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eg5O2y1UXw4

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Forward.

And sorry to hear that warbler. Life can really be sad sometimes.

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Handman said:

…Where do I go from here? Haven’t spoken to anyone since the fair.

Depends on what actually happened, which we don’t know (and that’s okay). But if you want to talk, let us know.

TV’s Frink said:

I would put this in my sig if I weren’t so lazy.

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Handman said:

I just need time to really move on, if possible.

yes, it’s possible, and you should focus on it for the time being. just do stuff you like and work to achieve some personal goals if you already have some. if you don’t, then set them and go for it.

It’s clear to me I will never meet anyone quite like this again. At least not for a very long time.

this is probably not true, too. from what i’ve seen you’re quite the nice person and nice things tend to happen to nice people. i hope you (and i think you will) eventually find someone that loves you. i went through something similar early last year with a friend of mine that i loved for 4 years, and even after i decided to part ways with her for a speedier recovery, it still hurt pretty bad for 2 or so months. however, once i was finally able to move on it was one of the best feelings ever, and good things started happening to me. i believe and hope that good things start happening to you, too.

i don’t know man, evem in a worst case scenario, time still takes care of everything. just try to focus on yourself for now. and good luck. we’ll be here either way.

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Yeah, it’s not true that you won’t meet someone. It’s just hard not knowing who, when, or where that is so it feels a long way off. But in any case, it really is better that you got through this with her now rather than stringing yourself along forever.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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I’m doing generally awful, which is unfortunate and expected, but I never get used to it.

The Person in Question

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Cold comfort, but I am genuinely sorry to hear that, mfm.

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chyron8472 said:

Yeah, it’s not true that you won’t meet someone. It’s just hard not knowing who, when, or where that is so it feels a long way off. But in any case, it really is better that you got through this with her now rather than stringing yourself along forever.

So much this. From experience. Suffered for Damn near three years in this situation, once I cut her out of my life I was over it in a few months. The few months sucked, but better to be very sad for a few months than a little sad for a lifetime.