I don't know how much sense you'll make of this but here we go...
It's easier to work with separate RGB luma channels because you don't have to worry about altering colour values. For this example we'll use the red channel to brighten the green channel. Layer order as follows:
1. [Adjustment layer] Use Colorama to set to green luma (explained below)
2. R/G channel difference matte (created in a separate precomp and explained below) - Make sure you turn this channel off
3. Source video (duplicate) [Track Matte, Inv. Luma] -- Set blend mode to ‘Lighten’ – Set this channel to display red luma using Colorama
4. Source video
Some notes about these layers:
1. Changes everything below this layer to display luma values.
2. The red/green difference matte will show areas of difference between the red and green channels.
3. Applies changes to only areas of the green channel which differ in brightness to the red channel. As you’re working with areas that should be black or near black ideally you would expect there to be little difference in brightness between the channels so where it finds a difference it will apply a lighter value (Obviously if the change would make it darker there will be no change). In this way you can never darken the image further. You can apply a curves adjustment to layer 2 to increase/decrease the contrast of the matte and thus the area affected. You can also alter the opacity of this layer to lessen the effect and obviously apply whatever filters you like.
Optionally, if you want to further limit the effect you can paste another duplicate of the source video layer between layers 1 & 2 and create a luma mask to 'paste back' more of the original brightness values. Even though you're working in luma you should still select the channel colour as the key rather than luma.
Using Colorama (find it under 'Colour Correction' in Effects):
Input Phase - Choose colour channel values you wish to use
Output Cycle - Always choose 'Ramp Grey'
Modify - Deselect 'Modify Alpha'
Masking - Deselect 'Composite Over Layer'
R/G Channel Matte (create a precomp called, say, 'R/G_diff'):
1. Source video - Set this layer to display green luma using Colorama, set blend mode to 'Difference'
2. Source video - Set this layer to display red luma using Colorama, set blend mode to 'Normal'