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#174876
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FOR THE SINGLE (or widowed or divorced) OTers
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Originally posted by: Gaffer Tape
To put some more specifics as to why I can't... well, my mother seems to think that if I get married, I'll lose my scholarships. In actuality (although I didn't tell her as I didn't want her to think I was considering getting married), I did talk a person in my school's financial aid office who said that my federal scholarship money would actually increase a bit if I was married. Conversely, though, the loans that my fiancee has require her to be a depedent. And we've talked about just leaving everyone else out of the equation and eloping. But her parents still very much try to control her, and they offer all kinds of financial support to her, so I really don't want to jeopardize that by sneaking around behind their backs. Her dad would probably end up making her a widow if I did that. ^_~ I'm still a bit younger than you two were when you got married, so I still have plenty of time to get things together. And I know a perfect "ready" time will never come. But we'll just see.
Yeah, financially marriage can work for and against you. As a married man, I get a few tax breaks, but nothing to write home about. On the filp side, when we first got back to England, I signed onto unemployment to allow me a little financial space to look for a job in animation (my profession), but being married actually meant I was not entitled to any cash because I now had a wife to support me (even though she was new to the country and working in a very low paid retail job). Long story short I was forced to take any job I could, and luckily landed my current government job which is a far from animation but beats digging holes. So I can understand your concerns, Gaffer - it's not as black and white as 'let's run off and get hitched in Vegas'.

You'll figure it out though
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#174873
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FOR THE SINGLE (or widowed or divorced) OTers
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Originally posted by: ricarleite
What I enjoy about being single is the freedom it gives, but not between a husband and wife, but to myself. I can be by myself and isolate if I want to, and not feel guilty about it. Or, I could see whoever I want, and have the kind of relationship I wish. And yet, being married to someone you love is great, because you'll always have that person for you. Being single and being married are like two sides of a coin, like yin-yang... in a way...

You're totally right Ric, it is 2 sided. I must admit I really miss being able to isolate myself without feeling guilty (or, more precise, being made to feel guilty).

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#174866
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hot like fire thread
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Originally posted by: Everescent
How dare you question my use of prolific words. I meant what I said. In order to explain why I said this, I will resort to quoting Davy, even though it's something I normally try to avoid.
DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT ANYBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR BLOG ???
In this case, I draw extra special attention to the three (not one, not two, but three) question marks following his inquiry (and you will note that question marks fall under the category of "Punctuation marks"). I have refrained from making a comment about the presence of a space in between the aforementioned question marks and the 'sentence' (I use the term somewhat loosely).

Let's be perfectly clear about one thing, though. I'm not taking this seriously at all. I think the entire thing is hilarious. It appears to me that the entire nature of this thread revolves around slinging mud in new and interesting ways. Unfortunately, sarcasm and jest don't always translate well into text (Sort of like when you try to say "Tomatoe tomatoe" in text- it's spelled the same but pronounced differently, so it just doesn't work), so some people might get the impression that I genuinely hate Davy.

I assure you that this is not the case. I wouldn't want to be a hypocrite, and accusing Davy of being an ass for checking and posting on this thread when he doesn't seem to be enjoying it at all, while doing the same thing myself would be counterproductive to that goal. Ergo, I will contend that I continue to check and post on this thread because, like Jay, I find that this thread is the epitome of comic genius, and I like to contribute in my own way.

In closing, zomg lolz lolz wat a nub. Thank you.
I must admit, sir, that you have shot me down in spectacular fashion. I was under the impression that you were referring to the average internet-user's habit of ending any and all sentences with !!!!!, but as you explained you were actually alluding to Dayv's use of ??? or, as I tend to call it, a triple-question-mark, which does indeed fall into the umbrella category 'punctuation mark'. I retract my earlier comment and welcome you, Everescent, into the Gramatically Competent Club (a.k.a GCC), Which is a very exclusive fellowship.

Originally posted by: Nanner Split
And what's the deal with people not wanting to post their pictures? They afraid someone's gonna hunt them down because they put a pic of themselves on the net? Hell, I'll put my badass pic up for all to see.
My thoughts exactly. I'm so badass I'll let you all see loads of pictures of me right here. What you gonna do about it??? (triple-question-mark for Everescent).

Originally posted by: Adamwankenobi
BTW Jay, I hear someone cooked up a new name for me in the IRC (to replace "Double Secret Probation"). Can you give me any hints?
I'm guessing 'Wanker'.
OK, that was officially my last ever dig at Adam. I feel so sorry for him after seeing his photo that I just can't bring myself to war with him any longer. I love you man! Hug?



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#174420
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LOTR: ROTK: The Book-Cut (Released)
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Originally posted by: vivsavage
Originally posted by: Lord Phillock

for a complete list of what is changed... let me know...
thank you....

I'm begging you... please email me about this. I am a professional video editor (like yourself, I am guessing???) and have re-edited TTT and am starting ROTK, both to coincide with the books as closely as possible. I would love to swap ideas, DVDs, etc. PLEASE! excaliburvideo@adelphia.net

I recently re-read the book for the first time since I saw the films and thought to myself 'there's no way this would work as a film if it were shot in book order'. Still, I'd be interested to watch it.

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#174402
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Time to grow up.
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Originally posted by: greencapt
And yes even though DarkFox's post were well written (and compared to many I've seen they *were* well written if not well intoned) they still had an inflammatory nature to them them that pre-judged this site and everyone on it. And not only were his views seemingly contradictory but they also quickly escalated into almost outright threats towards Jay and the forums here in general. There's a BIG difference between expressing your opinion and making pretentious balnket statements. And like many people have pointed out there are several different areas of this forum and no one either has to A) Visit the forums AT ALL or B) frequent any one area of the fourm at all. And by my reckoning the only areas of this forum that discusses either preservation projects OR fan edits are the areas that are CLEARLY MARKED. As has been stated if you don't like the 'General Star Wars' section either don't visit it or try and contribute to it in a way that encourages better discussion. I personally do both- if a thread/area gets too idiotic I look elsewhere. But the *strength* of the overall community keeps me coming back.

Perhaps on the new site there will need to be further forum areas such as Pro-PT areas. But keep in mind in the meantime that this site was founded by and initially populated by people who FOR the release of the OOT and as such *many* (not all as I don't make blanket statements) of those people were *against* changes (makes sense) and *many* of the people who were against changes were more than likely dedicated fans of the OOT. From that one can make the logical deduction that the *majority* of *those* people would approach the PT with a much higher level of criticism than the general public or more casual SW fans- hence more bitching about it. Now bitching, when done with thought behind it and when trying to constructively add certain points, is perfectly fine and sometimes downright fun. When bitching turns to 'Lucas is a$$' (as it was for quite some time) it just is juvenile and annoying- and best avoided. But if one's only reason for avoiding the 'General Star Wars' area is PT bashing then one may be at the wrong SW forum. I look at it like this- we all have our opinions. But its just as annoying to have someone blindly *defend* something as much as it is to have them stupidly *argue* something. What pisses me off is when ANY part of the forums start to be idiotic PERSONAL attacks on each other. I *personally* think the PT are steaming cinematic turds but I would NEVER tell another member that because they like them that means THEY are steaming human turds. Trust me- I like quite a few cinematic turds. But I just do. And I don't get offended when other people don't. In fact, outside of the little geek community we have here, the vast majority of the world seems to enjoy the turds the that Hollywood monkeys fling at us every week.

That said, there's just as many poo-flinging monkeys in the 'Off Topic' section as there is in the 'General Star Wars' section. Oh it may be different monkeys and different poo but the effect is the same. Remember that like any online venture what we do here is make-believe. Seriously. I know it may not feel like but it truly is. Very few of us will ever have contact with each other in real life. Most of us have no idea what each other does in real life, what we look like, etc. There is no 'ownership' on the net, or at least only so much as any one idividual puts forwards. So everything one reads, see, hears, smells or tastes online has to be taken with a grain of salt as they say. Just try to have a good time. And like I said in a previous post here we all have freedom of choice to be here or to be anywhere. The only time the poo-flinging monkeys win is when we LET THEM WIN. They crave easy targets to aim their poo at and when we run away screaming from ANY poo-flinger all we do is get poo on our backsides. And I for one can't stand poo on my backside.


As an O-OT supporter and non-fan of the prequels, I think I am definitely in the right place. I stopped frequenting the General Star Wars section because the debates were getting old and repetitive, plus AWK was getting on my nerves. I was beginning to actually dislike Star Wars, which made me very sad.

I think I just created a new word - Non-fan

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#174380
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The Things We Hate And Love Thread .
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Originally posted by: PSYCHO_DAYV
I HATE PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY'RE HOT. IT'S MUCH BETTER TO BE HOT AND ACT LIKE YOU DON'T KNOW IT THEN TO THROW IT IN EVERYBODY'S FACE. IT'S PATHETIC. THOSE PEOPLE MUST BE STARVING FOR ATTENTION.
Yeah, those people bug me too. They should try and be more like me - I mean, I'm so damn good looking it hurts. I'm so devastatingly handsome that if anything were to happen to my amazing looks, 500 girls would kill themselves (and I wouldn't want them on my conscience - not when they ought to be on my face!) I'm so hot and sexy and I have the sexual capacity of a rutting rhino. But do I boast about it or rub it in people's faces? Hell no.
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#174379
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Team_Warb Secret HQ(was: FrobozzCo (was :WARBLER., INC.™©®))
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Originally posted by: Warbler
BTW: the HQ and the ground it is on is being sold to a company called FrobozzCo International it is run by a troll(not the spamming internet kind). I am told he plans to produce lamps, swords, axes, dam controls, and other treasures and he plans to breed grues.

I own FrobozzCo. The Troll is actually employed by me. He's a lot scarier than me, so I get him to front the company while I lurk in the shadows. So that means I own WARBLER., INC.™©® now. Warbler is correct about the lamps, swords, axes, dam controls and other treasures.
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#174377
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FOR THE MARRIED OTers
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Originally posted by: HotRod
Wait untill the 'World Cup' starts in the UK - and around the 'World' of corse. Apart from you guys in the States that is. Why fooball never cought on there I'll never understand? Not that I'm much of a footy fan, but I do like watching the world cup. Especially when Italy beat Englands ass, untill Italy get kicked that is, then it's "Come on England" Unless England are out first then it'll be "Champione"
It's hard supporting two sides!

But anyhow, there's gonna be plenty of pissed off and bored women aroun - June, July time.
So if your a single lad going on a holiday this year, make sure you go when the world cup's on.
It's a fact that most girls go on holiday around that time.
I wish I knew that when I was a little younger

I was in America during Euro 2004 and ended up driving 100 miles to pay $25 to watch the BBC coverage of England versus Portugal and to my wife's credit, she watched it with me and was pissed off when they lost (bloody ref must have been getting backhanders). It was the first game of footie she ever watched. I'm not really a big football fan but I do like watching a game, especially international games.



Like Ricardo said, don't even get me started on Mother in Laws. It was bad enough when I only had my own Mum to deal with.

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#174376
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FOR THE MARRIED OTers
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Originally posted by: JediSage
Then there's the "You just can't wiiiiiin" factor. They can tell you the sky is pink at midnight, and no matter how you try to reason with them, it makes sense to THEM.

Then there's the "Hey, My husband just picked up, and very deliberately thumbed through a book to get to a certain page, now he's being intensely studious about it. He must want me to blab in his ear for the next 25 minutes non-stop".

OK...this has officially become the b#tch about your spouse thread...

LOL!!!

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#174375
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FOR THE SINGLE (or widowed or divorced) OTers
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Originally posted by: Gaffer Tape
I'm practically 20, and I have been in a relationship with the same girl for nearly three years now. We became engaged a year ago, but we don't tell anybody about it for fear of disapproving parents finding out or people thinking that it's silly to do so at such a young age. Right now, it's college and money (or lack thereof) keeping us from getting married. Beyond that, I feel that I'm ready for marriage, as naive as that may sound, but I really do believe it. And I really do believe that she is the one. As far as it actually happening... I'm not sure when yet. Once the opportunity presents itself, I suppose. But like JediSage said in the married thread, I really don't feel I'd be missing out on anything if I got married early.

OK, I am married, so probably shouldn't be posting here, but I just wanted to offer my 2 cents to Gaffer:
I got married at 23, my wife was 22. She American, I'm English. We had known each other one year. We didn't tell anyone we were getting married, we didn't even really plan it mush. We just did it - We didn't have any money, no solid plans, no guests, no family, nothing. And it was great. Do what you gotta do man, that's my message. It's your life. I get ridicule now and again from people who don't get it or think I'm missing out. To those people I say it is YOU who is missing out.

Fortunately, my parents ended up being totally cool about it and we even ended up living with them for 6 months in London while we got on our feet (jobs, an apartment, etc). Almost 2 years on and it's a steep learning curve and I'm not gonna lie and say it's all making love in the hay and no worries, but I wouldn't change it for the world.

As for waiting till you're 'ready', be it financially or any other way, I don't think you're ver really 'ready', and you can waste a lot of time waiting until you reach this imaginary state of readiness. Having said that, if there are things you want to do/accomplish, you need to make sure your partner understands that and will support you and help you.

OK, I'm done. I will not pollute this thread with my married-ness any more.

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#174372
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hot like fire thread
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I have just read through 10 pages of this thread that appeared, as if by some magic, over the weekend while I was away, and now my head feels like there’s a Frenchman living in it. This thread is, quite simply, funnier than a hyena that's just been appointed Professor of Hilarity at Oxford University on National Laugh Like a Drain Day.

My message for today, bought to you by the letter 4, is ‘don’t do drugs. Unless you want to get high, in which case, do'.

To everybody who is getting angry about the jokes/insults being slung back and forth like so much dung in a monkey enclosure, I say lighten up, and if you don't like it, then may I also add that you are a weedy pigeon and you can call me Susan if it isn't so.

Originally posted by: Everescent
Do you really think anyone cares if you don't? Is there a reason you're even here? Judging from the content of your posts, it's fairly easy to make the observation that you have nothing to contribute except baseless criticism and hostility. Is being an annoying twit your sole purpose for posting on this thread? Why do you even continue to check it?

I don't expect an intelligent response to this post, or even an answer to a single one of the questions I have posed. I expect a statement like "ZOMG I HAET YOU TOO everescent (or some derivative thereof, and in lower-case letters to signify your hatred) AND YOU SHOULD DIE (or do something else that would not be beneficial for myself or my dignity) !!!"

Excessive use of punctuation marks has been uncontestably linked to low IQs and small penises, by the way.

Hmm… I can see why some of the antics taking place here might upset/irritate/anger you, but I really think you should take back what you just said about Dayv, or eternity in the company of Beelzebub and all his hellish instruments of death will be a picnic compared to five minutes with me and this pencil. We're all just having a bit of fun, letting off some steam in an internet forum where, let's face it, nothing really matters. No need to get bent out of shape, as the saying goes.

Originally posted by: Everescent
Excessive use of punctuation marks has been uncontestably linked to low IQs and small penises, by the way.


I see you are a man of big words and eloquently structured sentences so I hesitate to correct you, but I assume you meant Exclamation marks?


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#174368
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The Thief and the Cobbler: Recobbled Director's Cut (Released)
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Originally posted by: ocpmovie
Hey Matt -- I finally got round to writing Nick Phillips.

The email bounced back - no such user.

I wonder if I should try and call him, all the way from the US ... or write him ....


UPDATE: The email address had "Philips" in it, just one L. I've written again spelling his last name with two Ls, which I think is right, and that hasn't bounced back yet, so maybe that was the address.

OCP, I think you might be right:

Nick Phillips Profile

Maybe snail mail is the way to go. A polite and detailed letter can go a long away, and if it comes from the US it will probably stand out and be noticed.

P.S Check your e-mail.


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#174367
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Time to grow up.
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Originally posted by: Shimraa
wow you knwo i never really did realize just how far this forum had fallen, man oh man, wow. here we have a guy who comes in and peacefully and nicely discusses his feelings about the site, and what do we get from the members "go F*ck yourself" man oh man, i really do wonder where this site went wrong.

i really cant wait for you to make the change jay cause i want to remember OT.com as the place it was, where we had good talks in the SW threads, where people would post fan fiction and what not and go from there, i still think one of the best memories i have of this site was reading rebels revised screenplays of ep 1, or some of the naming threads b4 ep 3 was released. now all i see is people whining about how the PT sucked, and how lucas sucks, and how every movie that comes out sucks and how peoples lives are ruined cause someone made a movie. its jsut wa wa wa all day long about how shit happened and people cant deal with it. its just getting rediculas.

so plz jay change the site as fast as you can, cause the scenery doesnt match the atmosphere, and the atmosphere is starting to ruin the scenery.

Well said Shim. I only hang out in the off-topic section now for those very reasons.

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#173555
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FOR THE MARRIED OTers
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That's the kind of thing I can't do - decorating, etc. We're stuck in visa limbo. I can't even commit to a twelve month broadband internet contract in case we leave next month. Totally sucks. I've been in the same government job for 15 months because I keep thinking 'it won't be long now'.

Glad to hear you say you didn't feel like you were missing out on anything. I definitely don't. In fact, I sometimes feel sorry for the friends of mine that 'don't get it'.

I think marriage in your early-mid twenties is more common in America. I have lots of American friends (originally my wife's friends, now mine) who are married or jealous of her for having found someone and being married. Here in Englnad, young people today seem to find it weird. Having said that, my parents were both 21 when they were married and 24 when they had me, but I think now the average age of getting married is 32 or something. I am definitely in the minority. These days it seems to be all about career and multiple partners. But You gotta do what you feel is the right path for you. I'm proud of myself for going against the grain.

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#173501
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Rankings
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Congrats to Greencapt on reaching 1200. I remember when he passed 1000. Our boy's all growed up now.

I assume when you talk about the significance of 69 you are referring to the fact that it looks the same even when upside down? I can't think of anything else you could mean....
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#173498
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FOR THE MARRIED OTers
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What a great thread. I can see I'm going to be using this place to vent A LOT.

I'm 25 and I've been married for 18 months, so I guess you could say I started young compared to a lot of people. As a result I get a lot of ridicule from my peers who, despite being in their mid 20s are still living like teenagers. What age were you guys when you tied the knot?

It's a steep learning curve, that's for sure, but it's going pretty well and I wouldn't change it. The only real problem I'm having is juggling activities - I play in a band, work as a freelance illustrator (I also have a day job so all the illustrating is done after work), factor in domestic chores like laundry and now I also have to be a loving attentive husband, which of course I want to be. I can no longer stay out jamming with the band till 3 am, or get home from an 8 hour day at the office, switch on my computer and work on my illustrations for another 6 hours before going to bed. My passions are being relegated to mere hobbies, which is kind of annoying.

We've also got some added stress because I'm English and She's American. We applied for a visa for me shortly after marrying but they're dragging their heels with the paperwork so we've been living in a sort of limbo because we don't know if we'll be here another week or another year.