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Hot.like.fire

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11-Aug-2010
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#222219
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hot like fire thread
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i'm not sure if i should laugh, or hide in a corner. i'm gonna go with laugh cuz my gf's and i use the term 'rape' very freely. we often talk about raping hot boys. but it wouldn't really be rape if they were willing... and from that survey, most guys are totally willing to have sex. so now i'm not sure where i'm going with this...
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#222215
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How do I get people to like me?
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sean i would def use names. most people love to hear their name, because it means you've taken the time to learn and remember it. i'm always impressed if a person remembers my full name, cuz i will sometimes introduce myself with my full first middle and last name (cuz it all kinda rhymes) and if they remember it all i'm like wow either they have a very good memory, or they actually care.
use names as much as you can.
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#222196
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hot like fire thread
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yes that is good advice. it's not like a choose what layer i show ppl, most of the time it comes naturally. and it's more that as a person really gets to know me, there is more than what meets the eye. sean i wouldn't worry so much about ppl liking you, i bet they already do, but you're so worried you can't see that in reality a lot of ppl love you.
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#222172
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The Things We Hate And Love Thread .
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hmm urges. i hate urges. especially ones that cannot be satisfied properly. nothing worse than that. i could elaborate on one, but i can't without getting graphic and i know kiddies post so i won't talk about it, i'll talk about something else.

i hate how i'm mega dehydrated from the 31 degree weather, but i'm too tired to eat, drink or do anything. today i was sweating like an animal. i had to take a cold shower and sit around in a towel to cool off.
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#222163
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How do I get people to like me?
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okay sean i'm gonna give my "great aunt gertrude" advice (long story short, 2 friends of mine used to write an advice column in our school newspaper, but i used to write the horoscopes haha and damn they were scandalous).

first of all be yourself. if you're like me and you have layers, pick the layer that you feel represents you most of the time, which is normally the outside one. more importantly, you must believe that you like yourself, because when a person is confident in themselves, it's like they have this aura around them that draws other ppl to them. people wonder why this individual is so confident, why they are so happy with themselves, life and living in general. i know i've probably said it before, but tell yourself you're hot. cuz beauty is skin deep and sean you're a great person, after getting to know you on the forum, AND seeing your pictures, i'd probably take the chance to date you (if you weren't 16, i'm pretty sure that qualifies as rape since i'm 21 haha). but what i'm basically saying is that if you just be yourself, girls are gonna be attracted to that (if it's girls you are trying to get to like you). for guys, i'm not really sure how male bonding works, you'd have to ask someone else.

but from someone who has had a MAJOR crush on a not-so-very attractive guy (back in gr 8) i learned from that experience that looks aren't everything. mind you he was an amazing charmer, and almost every girl in the school had a crush on him. but he knew how to make a girl feel special. that's another important thing, we girls like to know that we are special to you. because sometimes we feel that you as guys could do better (i know it's a ridiculous feeling, but even i have felt that way about a guy). and we sometimes need that extra reinforcement that you really are into us.

hope this all helps! and if it's anything to you, i think you're cute! for a youngin'
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#222157
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hot like fire thread
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see this situation is a tough one. cuz since he's a doctor, he obviously wouldn't go for some ditzy acting girl (which is how i lurn in guys about 50% of the time). but then he also probably wouldn't want some smarty pants nerd (which is me the other 50% of the time). then i can't really act like my crazy self around him, cuz i don't wanna come across as a bar-star whore in front of the other clerks (who already know me well) and the other doctors. but then nobody likes a shy girl! so i'm playing it by ear. and if i get a chance i'll throw in some witty comments and seduce him with my charms
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#221975
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hot like fire thread
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the pics of him and i in the same ones were back in jan when we went out for my 21st bday. i could post them if i really wanted. but right now i'm kinda lazy, and i don't feel like opening up a new window to load imageshack. plus i'm doing fast posts cuz i really should be out working right now.

new update. the HOT intern was in my clinic today. he saw me checking him out like seriously 10 times today and i now think he thinks i'm a nutter. well there is always next week
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#221824
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hot like fire thread
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yeah i'd say only 2 guys have actually experienced that freak-in-me, matt and danny. and 1 knew it was in me, but he didn't really see so much of it, he was a rebound and i didn't waste time with that. oh and i guess the first guy i ever fell for really hard knew i was a freak in the core too, cuz he's an even bigger one and we used to have some really sick convos. lol that was probably too much info sorry guys!
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#221823
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The Things We Hate And Love Thread .
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yes shim, i am talking to danny again. i figure if the bitch wants to dirty-talk with me while dating some other girl, let him do what he wants. right now i want and need a quick fix, thus i'm resorting to a no-fail plan.

i call my brother a man-whore all the time. but that is cuz he cheats on his gf at the bar whenever he goes. and i really like his gf, she's nice and smart and sweet. not like the hoebag he was dating before her.
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#221822
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WHO LIKES To drink
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yeah i'd have to say i'm the cheapest drunk you'd ever meet. the last time i was really drunk and almost passed out was on my 18th bday. i've kinda stopped drinking now. i cant dance very well when i'm drinking cuz i lose my sense of balance and then just get sloppy. ahaha. although i like drinking at parties, or anywhere were i am sitting down. then i'm fine.
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#221757
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The Things We Hate And Love Thread .
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it's funny you bring that up cuz once i was watching the showcase channel on tv (at least i think it was that channel or it could have been sexual secrets or sextv i really can't remember now) and they were doing some experiment with women and men. it was a university setting and it was an experiment involving how sexes respond to different sexual situations. the first was a woman who would go up to total strangers (men) and ask if they wanted to go back to her place. i cant remember the statistic but it was def over 60% said 'yes'. when the situation was reversed and the man went up women asking if they wanted to go back to his place to have sex, only like 15-20% (or some number significantly lower) said 'yes'. it's all about standards and things though. men can sleep around and nobody says otherwise. but if women do it we're called a slut or whore.