shimy said:
lordjedi
I'm sorry but you are a very selfish man. Go travel the world a little and see what happens in those countries where the government does not take care of the poor. And you wonder why democrats have some a low opinion of some republicans, its the ME ME ME additude, the 'i don't care for anyone except myself' veiw point that just causes them so much grief.
I stopped reading here (I will read the rest later though).
I have a ME attitude? Just proves how much you don't know me. Did you even read the above messages? I have a son to take care of. I have a mortage to pay. I have medical bills.
I could've stayed single and chosen to horde my money (even then I didn't horde it, I once lent my sister $1000 so she could get into an apartment). Instead, I chose to get married, buy a house, and start a family. Everything I do revolves around my family. I chose to start riding my bike 7 miles each way to work and back in order to save my family $100 per month in gas. I don't like riding my bike one bit, but considering that I'd rather face that hardship then sink all that money into a car every month, I'll take the bike.
In those countries where the govt doesn't "take care of the poor", the govt also usually has policies that prevent anyone from doing anything productive. Take a look at those countries yourself. You've got Cuba and China, where they can come in and shut down your business or take your home, on a whim. The difference between those two is that China actually seems to like business and Cuba doesn't. You've got Mexico, where they'd rather educate their citizens on how to cross the northern border and survive instead of actually putting some power into the hands of the people and making some investments in private industry in their own country. In the meantime, they've also militarized their southern border to keep people from coming in from South America.
Now I'm sorry if I have a lot more responsibilities than the average joe and make all my decisions based on those responsibilities and the consequences of my actions. Life hasn't been easy (is it ever for anyone?) and I struggled to get where I am. Sure, I didn't start off dirt poor, but I didn't start off with much except a good home. We weren't rich growing up, I wouldn't even say we were well off. We had food on the table and that's about it. Personally, I'd like my son to have a little more than I did growing up. But I guess I should just accept govt control of healthcare because other people need it so much more than I do. I guess I should be willing to turn over even more of my paycheck (that I work hard for) in exchange for govt services that I'm never going to use and will probably be abused by people looking to game the system.
I did go back and read the rest of your message after typing that. I'll now respond:
shimy said:
or getting kicked out of hospitals with major injuries just because they dont have insurance.
That does not happen here either. Read my above messages. It is illegal to kick someone out of a hospital. If you go to a hospital, even without insurance, they must treat you. That is law. It's also why emergency rooms and hospitals are getting over run and going into debt. They must treat you.
You say your not very weathly. Well you have a job that pays enough for you to get a computer and have the internet. That puts you head and shoulders above alot of other people.
Here you're assuming a lot. For all you know, I could be doing this at a library. Libraries have computers too now you know. But I'll be honest. Yeah, I have a computer at work that's supplied by work. I also have a job that lets me have one at home with Internet. Of course, most people making even around $30k per year (that's $15 per hour) have a computer, Internet, and a cell phone. I was fortunate earlier in life that I was able to work with computers for my job. Would I have Internet and a computer at home if I were making less? Sure, but I'd probably have a much slower speed connection at home and a computer that wasn't as good. Why? Because I would have more important things to spend my money on. Even now I don't have the system or connection I would like because I simply do not have the money for it.
But I didn't just get all the stuff. I didn't pop into existence for me. I had to go to school and work my way up in the world in order to get there. I had to not only gain experience, but gain a reputation for being a badass at what I do. I don't accept "No" or "We can't do that" for an answer. I always want an explanation and I always try to find a way to get something done. And I always try to find a way to do things faster, whether through automation or eliminating unnecessary steps.
And for the record, how much biology have you studied, what do you consider to be a new life.
I consider it a new life at the moment of conception.
I am literally shocked at how appalled people get at abbortion, you know how many embryos they through in the trash at fertility clinic. Yet you never hear anyone outlawing those, hmm. If you want to call a embryo a life because it has the potiental to grow into a new person, why not take it a step further, sperm and eggs have the same potiental.
1. Yes and I am sickened by it (the fertility clinic throwing away embryos).
2. Where have you been? There are plenty of groups that are calling for outlawing at the very least trashing the embryos and are also totally against IVF. The Catholic religion is totally against IVF. Many Christians are totally against throwing away embryos and would love nothing more than to have that practice banned. Just because you don't hear about it on the nightly news doesn't mean they aren't against it. A friend of mine did IVF and they've kept the remaining embryos frozen, even though they got twins out of the first batch, because they are staunchly pro-life.
3. I love that "It has the potential to grow into a new person". Does that make it easier to kill a life? It must. The fact is that as long as the mother is in good health and takes care of themselves, an embryo will always grow into a new person (unless there's a miscarriage or some other natural process at work). It doesn't have "potential", it just does. What, do we expect it to turn into a cat instead? Or maybe a car. Not without some kind of genetic intervention (not sure if you could get a car that way). The baby might be born with birth defects or it might be healthy. The point is that it's still going to come out as a human baby.
4. Um, ok. So sperm and eggs have the same potential. And? Sorry, I don't see your point here. Am I suppose to get up in arms every time my wife has her period because we didn't make it a baby instead? That's a natural process. An abortion is not a natural process (unless the body does it through miscarriage or something like that).
Hmm, its not a cut and dry subject when it comes to what you define as 'new life'. I wonder really what your opinion would be if you had to an incubator for 9 months.
My wife is pro-choice. If she ever got raped, we'd both be devistated (her more so than me obviously) and I'd want the SOB dead. If she ended up pregnant from it, I would not be ok with her getting an abortion. I would hope that she'd agree with me and agree to keep it. I don't know what I would do if she chose to get an abortion. I know I'd be devistated (yes, I have thought about this). Just because the child isn't mine doesn't mean we can't raise it in a good household. I use to be ok with abortion in the case of rape and incest. Then one day I thought to myself "But why is that ok? What did the baby do to deserve it? What crime did the child commit?". That's when I changed my mind. I do hope that I never have to deal with that kind of decision. I know it's not an easy one to make, but it's one that I have already made in my mind. But I'm not the only one whose mind has to be made.
shimy said:
anyway i am done in here, you just don't get it, and from this point on, its my own problem if i continue to argue with you. Your beleifs span from some fundemental values(i am not saying those values are wrong but... i donno if they are the best kind to have living in our world today), and i have little or no hope of changing your even persuading you of another veiwpoint especially on an internet forum. The only thing that will do that is if you have a real experience and go and see stuff for yourself.
Don't go. I didn't have a problem having an ongoing debate with you.
Yes, I do have some fundamental beliefs. Most of them stem from personal responsibility. If bad things happen to you, even things out of your control, grab life by the horns and take control back.
For the record, I've seen plenty of places myself. I don't like them one bit and I'm happy that my country has the freedoms it has. I've seen homeless people on the streets of LA. I've seen people in Tijuana hocking whatever they can in order to get by. Yeah, the difference between me and them is that I was born here. The only difference is that my govt didn't take a heavy handed approach to everything. My govt made a free country where people could come from all walks of life and improve themselves, if only they have the desire to do it and are willing to work hard to make it happen. Plenty of people have come here with less and have even more than they could ever imagine. Check out Chris Gardner for a prime example. Sure he didn't come from a foreign country, but that guy has been through hell and back.