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Okay, a lot’s happened in the last week, so long story ahead.
Last sunday night I was going on one of my signature late-night, self-loathing, homophobic, text rants, but this one was to a friend who I hadn’t really talked to in years so he didn’t know how bad I was. He contacted my parents and told them about my self-image issues and my crippling fear of college, the future, and the suicidal thoughts that accompanied (I assume he didn’t mention my bisexuality because I haven’t been stoned to death yet). So they talked to me for a few hours on monday night, took me to the doctor wednesday morning, and now I’m on various medication (Prozac, a sleeping pill, and some other anxiety thing). I haven’t noticed much change yet, but now I’m worried about it because if I do start to hate myself less, then end up outing myself/end up living my life as a proud march into hell, then I’m worse off than I was before, if any of that makes sense (it does in my screwed up head, anyway).
Anyway, that’s the (short version of) the story of the last week or so.
I am glad you are getting help. It is true that there is no magic pill to take away all your problems. However, antidepressants can help. Nevertheless, they take at least three weeks to reach optimum effectiveness. While you may see some early improvement, nothing drastic will take place in just a week on Prozac. I am curious what your other medications are, as I believe that there are better and worse options for sleep and anxiety, and unfortunately the worse options are often prescribed by those who are less familiar with psychiatric medications.
Just know that God loves you exactly as you are. Regardless of your feelings on the moral correctness of any homosexuality, I know that we both believe in a God who loves all his children and is not anxious to condemn them. Men may judge harshly, but God desires that all may come to him.
And as for college, I am a very shy person by nature, and had no confidence in my abilities when I prepared to move to college. I actually started antidepressants shortly after that move. But I made it and have grown tremendously. I know it’s frightening now, tremendously frightening, because I was there. But I also know that you can make it.