I don’t believe they’re debating it warbler. I believe husezni is speaking in layman’s terms to explain what had been posted and coffee encouraged the sharing of opinions even if they weren’t the same as others.
This is just how I am seeing it though. I could very well be wrong.
I encouraged him to give advice actually pertaining to my situation if he could, (even if it was just how many volts of electricity I should subject myself to). Instead, it seems he decided to defend himself and/or offer completely irrelevant advice about questioning everything. ¯\ _(ツ)_/¯
I meant to convey what is very often forgotten. Solving a problem requires clarity and freedom from deception and deceivers.
Deception from people like you with twisted views on the world and how people should hate themselves so they more closely align with those views?
Other than you, everyone else giving advice is doing so from the perspective of what would be best for coffee, not for their “morally narcissistic” views.
I’ve deliberately avoided specific advice in this matter to encourage the pursuit of what Coffee knows to be True.
Hatred for one’s self is most often an indication that one is not standing with honesty or courage for Truth. The psychopathic solution to this dilemma is to jettison Truth and pretend to believe in “truth” invented by twisted Moral Narcissists.