I don’t believe they’re debating it warbler. I believe husezni is speaking in layman’s terms to explain what had been posted and coffee encouraged the sharing of opinions even if they weren’t the same as others.
This is just how I am seeing it though. I could very well be wrong.
I encouraged him to give advice actually pertaining to my situation if he could, (even if it was just how many volts of electricity I should subject myself to). Instead, it seems he decided to defend himself and/or offer completely irrelevant advice about questioning everything. ¯\ _(ツ)_/¯
I meant to convey what is very often forgotten. Solving a problem requires clarity and freedom from deception and deceivers.
I’ll review your post and see if I have anything more specific.