Are you the daddy or mommy?
It seems the OT Discord is quite lively for The Cantina type of discussions.
A number of other forums have had the same issue; less posting in certain forum sections, but more posting on their Discord instead.
Discord is usually better suited for quick casual conversations, with forums being better for archiving longer form/ longer term conversations. With most people moving away from the latter and into the former, I can’t say I’m too surprised