Happened to me recently too man. It’s tough but it happens. It hurt less than the other woman I just talked about that was my best friend and big sister for 3 years turning on me for some mystery reason that even seems to baffle and anger a lot of mutual friends of ours. Some mental issue, basically has to be.
I have a new girlfriend now though so I’m just trying to forget about both of them.
Shitty times my friend. But in the big scheme of things is one of the less shitty things that can happen. My ex is now with another guy but I’m partially responsible for what happened. At least we had a good break up and no hard feelings. It wasn’t meant to be and another girl will come.
Some mental issue, basically has to be.
I really don’t like it when this is used as an excuse to explain shitty people.
I guess it was a polite way of saying sh’e crazy haha
It just occurred to me recently that my girlfriend broke up with me a little over a year ago now, which seems crazy to me but just goes to show how much time flies. I was pretty broken up about it for a bit but I did get over it (as everyone does, eventually). Point being, it doesn’t feel like I’ve been single that long just because I guess came to not care.
There’s a lot more to life than romantic relationships, and they’re good when they’re good, but it’s also great to have time with just yourself and don’t have to worry about the rest of it. So I feel you man, it sucks, but see the positive in this, take some time to be single, and when, like you said, another girl comes, another girl comes. Until then, no worries.
I hear ya, sometimes it takes time to realize that you are actually single. I was with her 5 years so I still feel kind of “lost and empty”, I mean that in the less dramatic way but it illustrates the feeling that we all get in situations like this. As you said, time alone is a great thing but if yo are at peace with yourself, at the moment I’m still on shock because she left 3 weeks ago (we lived together) but oddly enough, I feel relative fine. Despite what i feel I know it will eventually fade away.