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a story about the sad state of humanity

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I don't think it is the sad state of humanity as a whole. Stuff like that happens in New York City all the time. It is ridiculous. A relative of mine who lives there fell and twisted her ankle on the sidewalk in the middle of the day when the streets were full of people. She couldn't get up and was surrounded by people walking past her. Imagine walking past a clean cut, well dressed, middle aged woman who is on the ground begging for someone to help her up, and just ignoring her. It is pretty sick, I have no idea what the hell is wrong with that place. She had to eventual crawl her way over the building and pull herself up.

"Every time Warb sighs, an angel falls into a vat of mapel syrup." - Gaffer Tape

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you think it would only happen in New York?   I doubt that.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effect

Not only in New York City, perhaps. I don't doubt it happens in other places. But stuff like that has long been known to happen in NYC. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kitty_Genovese

 

I have no idea what it is about that place, or why the people there have such a fear of "getting involved".

Both you and I seem to think there is something horribly wrong with it having happened, which leads me to believe both of us would have done something about it had we been in that situation. I know I would have. I also can't imagine you and I are all that special in this regard, so I am not giving up on mankind just yet. But yeah, it is pretty staggering that stuff like this can happen. 

 

"Every time Warb sighs, an angel falls into a vat of mapel syrup." - Gaffer Tape

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I wouldn't mind seeing that man's relatives suing every single passer-by who ignored the man.

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Sluggo said:

I wouldn't mind seeing that man's relatives suing every single passer-by who ignored the man.

Is there a binding legal obligation to help a stranger who you can't be sure of if they are in distress? 

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Maybe not, but I think a case could be made for the passers-by being charged for Accessory to Murder.

 

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C3PX said:

Both you and I seem to think there is something horribly wrong with it having happened, which leads me to believe both of us would have done something about it had we been in that situation. I know I would have. I also can't imagine you and I are all that special in this regard, so I am not giving up on mankind just yet. But yeah, it is pretty staggering that stuff like this can happen. 

I'd like to think I'd do something.   It would certainly be the right thing to do.   But I do know what I'd really do.  

I've gone to Philly(and couple of times to NY) and seen homeless people on the street and did nothing(of course I do give to charities that help the homeless).   How do I know any of them weren't sick or dying and need of medical attention?    Maybe you've never been in a big city and walked by and saw a homeless person it is easy to say you'd do something until you are in the situation.   I confess there is an instinct in me that says "I don't want anything to do with this situation".    I hope I would do something, but I'm going to put myself above these people that just walked by.  Perhaps, I'm just as bad as they are.   I don't know.     

One thing I will do is remember this story and how sad it is, and maybe that will make me do the right thing.  If I ever do come across a situation like this.     

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Maybe not, but I think a case could be made for the passers-by being charged for Accessory to Murder.

I'm not a lawyer, but I would think it would be very difficult to try argue that in a court of law. 

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Warbler said:

 

I'd like to think I'd do something.   It would certainly be the right thing to do.   But I do know what I'd really do.  

I've gone to Philly(and couple of times to NY) and seen homeless people on the street and did nothing(of course I do give to charities that help the homeless).   How do I know any of them weren't sick or dying and need of medical attention?    Maybe you've never been in a big city and walked by and saw a homeless person it is easy to say you'd do something until you are in the situation.   I confess there is an instinct in me that says "I don't want anything to do with this situation".    I hope I would do something, but I'm going to put myself above these people that just walked by.  Perhaps, I'm just as bad as they are.   I don't know.     

 

I know for a fact that walking down the streets of Portland, Seattle, and Tacoma I've probably passed literally hundreds of homeless people who may have been dead/dying.

I doubt that they were, and didn't think they were at the time, assuming they were sleeping, but I just kept walking.

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Didn't the Seinfeld gang get charged for something similar (though not as life-or-death) in the finale?

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yeah, but that was just fiction.

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I thought it was actually based on a real law somewhere, but I can't back that up and I'm too lazy to google it right now.

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Warbler said:

Sluggo said:

Maybe not, but I think a case could be made for the passers-by being charged for Accessory to Murder.

I'm not a lawyer, but I would think it would be very difficult to try argue that in a court of law. 

 I know, but I am so (insert vulgarity here) angry about this, I wanna spit.

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TV's Frink said:

I thought it was actually based on a real law somewhere, but I can't back that up and I'm too lazy to google it right now.

if it is, this is the first I've heard of that.

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From wiki (usual disclaimer applies):

A good Samaritan law was featured in the May 1998 series finale of the popular NBC situation comedy Seinfeld, in which the show's four main characters were all prosecuted and sentenced to one year in jail for making fun of (rather than helping) an overweight man who was getting robbed at gunpoint.[28] In reality, while Massachusetts (where the fictional crime was committed) does have a law requiring passersby to report a crime in progress, the most stringent punishment the characters could have suffered under those circumstances would have been a $500–$2500 fine (assuming they were prosecuted under state law); in addition, the phrase "good Samaritan law," when used in Massachusetts, refers only to the civil law definition and does not have any actual relevance to the law under which Jerry Seinfeld and his friends were prosecuted (which would be considered a duty to rescue).[29]
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Huh, interesting that you called it a sorry state, then you kind of defended the inaction. Not that I am complaining, I enjoy the fact that you are getting me to think about it more. It is just kind of confusing, as you seem to be both sympathetic to and condemning of the situation.

I've been to cities with homeless people lying around, and I have always been quite content to walk by. But if I saw blood pooling undernearth one of them, I'd be fast to do something about it. The article you posted mention that a guy actually poked at him for a bit, then moved on. That is just downright morbid if you ask me.

"Every time Warb sighs, an angel falls into a vat of mapel syrup." - Gaffer Tape

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I would like to say I would have helped the man in the circumstances. I think the blood would have been enough to make my decision to help. I don't have a cell phone, nor do I ever want one, but I would be stopping people to call the police. I would put my CPR license to good use. I would do everything I could to help him.

I am not saying I am some every man hero guy. I have always tried to be as nice as possible. I would want somebody else to do the same for me.

"The other versions will disappear. Even the 35 million tapes of Star Wars out there won’t last more than 30 or 40 years. A hundred years from now, the only version of the movie that anyone will remember will be the DVD version [of the Special Edition], and you’ll be able to project it on a 20’ by 40’ screen with perfect quality. I think it’s the director’s prerogative, not the studio’s to go back and reinvent a movie." - George Lucas

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C3PX said:

The article you posted mention that a guy actually poked at him for a bit, then moved on. That is just downright morbid if you ask me.

Some other kid actually took a picture of the guy with his cell phone.

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Which is the sadder state?  That people don't help these people?  Or that these people choose to live like this is the first place?

That's the saddest part to me.  Though it does suck that there is such fear of being hurt that we don't stop to help more.  I wish I could just go out and help all of the people who look like they need help...  But there's a risk involved and there are people that rely on me (like my mortage company) and it's not very responsible of me to put myself at risk like that all of the time.

Is that a valid excuse?

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TV's Frink said:

From wiki (usual disclaimer applies):

A good Samaritan law was featured in the May 1998 series finale of the popular NBC situation comedy Seinfeld, in which the show's four main characters were all prosecuted and sentenced to one year in jail for making fun of (rather than helping) an overweight man who was getting robbed at gunpoint.[28] In reality, while Massachusetts (where the fictional crime was committed) does have a law requiring passersby to report a crime in progress, the most stringent punishment the characters could have suffered under those circumstances would have been a $500–$2500 fine (assuming they were prosecuted under state law); in addition, the phrase "good Samaritan law," when used in Massachusetts, refers only to the civil law definition and does not have any actual relevance to the law under which Jerry Seinfeld and his friends were prosecuted (which would be considered a duty to rescue).[29]

huh,  I guess it was based on a real law.   Well, I guess the question is, does NY have a similar law?

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Huh, interesting that you called it a sorry state, then you kind of defended the inaction.

I'm not defending the inaction,  I'm just simply saying that I don't know I'd be any better than they were.  I'd like to think I would be.   But I can't be certain, unless I'd find myself in that position.

C3PX said: The article you posted mention that a guy actually poked at him for a bit, then moved on. That is just downright morbid if you ask me.

I agree.

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Which is the sadder state?  That people don't help these people?  Or that these people choose to live like this is the first place?

That's the saddest part to me.  Though it does suck that there is such fear of being hurt that we don't stop to help more.  I wish I could just go out and help all of the people who look like they need help...  But there's a risk involved and there are people that rely on me (like my mortage company) and it's not very responsible of me to put myself at risk like that all of the time.

Is that a valid excuse?

it might be if, in order to help him, you had to put your own life at risk.  But I fail to see how using your cell phone, or a pay phone, etc . . ., to dial 911 and say "hay there's this guy lying in the street in a pool of blood, I think he needs help he's at (give them the address here)"  would be putting your own life at risk.

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In this cicrumstance, you're right... a phone call would help and it is very low risk.  I was mostly thinking of more direct ways of helping people- I pass people on the side of the road all of the time wondering if they probably need help.  I stop from time to time and some people are thankful because they need help, some people are thankful though they don't need help, and some people are annoyed because they don't need help.

IT'S MY TRILOGY, AND I WANT IT NOW!

"[George Lucas] rebooted the franchise in 1997 without telling anyone." -skyjedi2005

"Yeah, well, George says a lot of things..." a young 1997 xhonzi on RASSM

"They're my movies." -George Lucas. 19 people won oscars for their work on Star Wars (1977) and George Lucas wasn't one of them.

Rewrite the Prequels!

 

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yeah,  you do have to be careful there.   Some people, might want to help themselves to your belongings, and they might be willing to do harm to your person to get them.

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Warbler said:

yeah,  you do have to be careful there.   Some people, might want to help themselves to your belongings, and they might be willing to do harm to your person to get them.

And they will have to live with that for the rest of their lives. I don't think you can be sane and not feel some remorse for bad things you've done. I know I would. I regret some shit I said when I was 5. Hell, I regret some shit I posted on here a year ago.

"The other versions will disappear. Even the 35 million tapes of Star Wars out there won’t last more than 30 or 40 years. A hundred years from now, the only version of the movie that anyone will remember will be the DVD version [of the Special Edition], and you’ll be able to project it on a 20’ by 40’ screen with perfect quality. I think it’s the director’s prerogative, not the studio’s to go back and reinvent a movie." - George Lucas

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EyeShotFirst said:

And they will have to live with that for the rest of their lives. I don't think you can be sane and not feel some remorse for bad things you've done. I know I would. I regret some shit I said when I was 5. Hell, I regret some shit I posted on here a year ago.

 Get over it, jerk!

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TheBoost said:

EyeShotFirst said:

And they will have to live with that for the rest of their lives. I don't think you can be sane and not feel some remorse for bad things you've done. I know I would. I regret some shit I said when I was 5. Hell, I regret some shit I posted on here a year ago.

 Get over it, jerk!

 I regret saying that. Sorry.