Originally posted by: ricarleiteOriginally posted by: Yoda Is Your Father
Thanks for the comments guys.
The hardest part in all this is the realisation that, while I can fairly lay part of the blame on my in-laws, I have some real issues that I need to sort out. If everything happens for a reason, this happened to make me get off my arse and go and get some help. I can move out of State and run away from my North Dakotan problems, but I can't run from the problems inside myself.
The best way to face this problems is... by facing them. Really. If they demand of you some behaviour or blame you for things you should not be blamed, the best way is to expose this as clearly and logically as possible, not letting it turn into a discussion or a more heated argument. Speak with a smile and anything you say will not sound "offensive", even though you are not saying anything of the sort. Except for health problems and death, everything can be solved by talking. Everything.
Originally posted by: Yoda Is Your Father
And hang in there Warbler - There's someone out there for everyone.
This soul mate of mine probably died some years ago, 'cause I can't find it either. But I've been slowly finding the wonders of asexuality.