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How cruel it is that you cannot rely on others for happiness, yet only feel happy around friends. Being alone has lost all its romanticism. I’m not interesting enough to keep myself busy.

“After a time, you may find that having, is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Spock

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You’ll have to learn to live with yourself.

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I used to, but I seem to have forgotten how.

“After a time, you may find that having, is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Spock

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I hate myself but also get that learning to live with yourself is the only way to feel any real happiness. I don’t try to learn to live with myself because I don’t care anymore, but if you’re interested in bettering your quality of life then it’s something you should look into.

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Possessed said:

I’ve been in your shoes man. Get whatever closure you need, and cherish the memories, but get out of there. Trust me. The sooner you move on the sooner your can be happy with somebody that wants that with you and then the painful sad memories can turn into fond distant memories. Trust me.

I should have done this.

“After a time, you may find that having, is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Spock

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You can still do at least the last part.

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If I was rich I would pay somebody to kill me. Don’t ask for an explanation because I don’t have one even for myself.

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Possessed said:

If I was rich I would pay somebody to kill me. Don’t ask for an explanation because I don’t have one even for myself.

That’s the plot synopsis for Bulworth.

Nonetheless.

“After a time, you may find that having, is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Spock

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I really wish I could say more to help. Sorry. Hang in there.

“After a time, you may find that having, is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Spock

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Lost a fairly close friend of the family today to cancer. He was only 40. I pray that his wife and family can find some semblance of peace in his passing.

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one69chev said:

Lost a fairly close friend of the family today to cancer. He was only 40. I pray that his wife and family can find some semblance of peace in his passing.

I am very sorry for your loss my friend.

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Thanks for the kind words guys. One of the most difficult aspects of living overseas is not being able to be there for friends and family during times of crisis. I appreciate having this community and being able to share; it means a lot to me.

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Very sorry for your loss.

“After a time, you may find that having, is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Spock

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one69chev said:

Lost a fairly close friend of the family today to cancer. He was only 40. I pray that his wife and family can find some semblance of peace in his passing.

I am very sorry that you lost your friend. You my sympathies. I’ll pray for you and his family.


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Possessed said:

If I was rich I would pay somebody to kill me. Don’t ask for an explanation because I don’t have one even for myself.

I think that would be a terrible investment decision.


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I’m probably going in tonight to do another alcohol detox. It’s either that or I’ll end up killing myself.

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Possessed said:

I’m probably going in tonight to do another alcohol detox. It’s either that or I’ll end up killing myself.

Hey man, take care of yourself. If you think detoxing is the way to go, you are most likely right about that.

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Possessed said:

I’m probably going in tonight to do another alcohol detox. It’s either that or I’ll end up killing myself.

Good luck, man.

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ditto on both. I will pray for you.


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Possessed said:

I’m probably going in tonight to do another alcohol detox. It’s either that or I’ll end up killing myself.

I am happy to hear this and I hope you come through a stronger man for it.

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I just ate for the first time in like 3 days. I basically live in Gin. Seriously. I drink before work, at work, lunch, after work, all night. It’s my life. I’ve done this before and the withdrawals actually weren’t super bad for me. Probably because I never have a ton in my system at one point in time, it’s usually just 2 or 3 drinks at a time but I’m just mentally and physically addicted to having those 3 drinks in my system. Hopefully luck will be with me and I won’t have withdrawals, which I didn’t last time and I was drinking more at that time. But my girlfriend unexpectedly broke up with me and it was serious to the point that I was thinking of her daughter as my step daughter and she’s being so cruel about it to the point that I have yet to even get an explanation, when things were peachy keen the last time we spoke and it’s just sent me over the edge to where I have to make a change and do something with this pain or I will kill myself and quitting booze seems a good place to start.

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I am sorry to hear that possessed. You are a person I like seeing around the Forum so I hope you can take care of yourself.