When I logged in and caught up on things recently, I was amazed at how rude one of our members was toward another member who was only expressing his griefs and heartfelt concern toward Adywan. I don't need to mention names because we all know who I am talking about here. It seemed to settle down before I had come on, so I choose to not get involved. And yet I find myself logging in again tonight, and feeling disgusted yet again over the same member being abusive towards a different member, who just asked a simple question. This time I cannot bite my tongue.
I am usually very quiet in here because I usually don't feel like I have too much to contribute, other than praise and support, but I do enjoy coming in and seeing the new developments, and like everybody else in here, I am very anxious to see the final results. I get disgusted whenever I see a forum member treat another member like dirt, no matter what kind of forum I'm in. There's just no need for it. In another forum I frequent, the creator and moderator just the other day put a word of caution up that if people cannot be civil to one another, then people will get booted out. It only takes a few people to ruin a forum. I am starting to think the same thing is in desperate need of happening in here. It's a shame too. Most of us are here to offer ideas and support to Adywan. This one in particular I am talking about never has anything nice to say other than to Adywan. To everybody else, he is rude, cold, and insulting. It seems the only time he has anything to say is when he quotes somebody and fires an insult at them. Just because he has always been that way does not mean it should be accepted.
He claims that he supports Adywan, yet when Ady came on with bad news, everybody else was voicing their sadness, when this person decided to throw insults and profanity at another member, starting up a multi-page war. Is that what he means by supporting Adywan? Because I'm certain Adywan does not want to come in here and have to read all this garbage.
I am very sorry to continue this, but I just had to say something. I have been coming here since this thread started, and I cannot count the number of times I have seen this member treat other members badly. It really needs to stop, before nobody wants to come in here anymore. This is generally a very well-behaved forum, other than some tendency to stray off course when it gets slow, but I don't mind that so much. I have seen some people in here making some very generous contributions, and that shows the level of dedication and camaraderie that exists in here . I don't know what this person's problem is - I'm not exactly a people person myself, and I have gone through some very tough times in life, but that doesn't give me the right to verbally abuse people in forums where we are supposed to be friends. If this person can't act civil, then maybe he needs a "time-out".