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Over the last couple of years I've discovered I'm really good at casual relationships, I can juggle several at once, hold their interest for pretty much as long as I want most of the time, and (usually) gracefully drop the ones that grow stale or uninteresting. But I suck at potentially serious monogamous ones. Girls will get into me real quick, become totally smitten, and when I return interest and want to pursue something, it seems to fizzle in 3 to 6 months, then I have to go out and start new casual ones because I blew all the other ones off for that one.

Been hanging out with this one girl for a month now (yeah, that's not very long) who I really click with. The other day she admitted that she stopped answering messages from the other guys she had been seeing right after meeting me because they suddenly didn't seem worth wasting time on anymore, and hasn't fooled around with anyone since. I haven't admitted it to her yet, but I've totally been dodging messages from all the other women in my life since meeting her too.

I really dig this girl, she makes it all the way down my check list on desirable features and traits so far, and we seem to want all the same things in life, but this is the point where I feel like a hopeless high schooler and have no idea how I am suppose to act from here on. I feel like if I reach over the line and admit I want to date her exclusively, we'll probably have a really fun 3 or 4 months before we realize we are just smoking filter and have to toss the butt. If I keep it casual, I bet I could still be hanging out with her for another six months or more down the road, while not having to muck around with obligations and strong feelings.

Ugh, relationships suck. But I'm kind of getting burnt out on meaningless physical activity, and kind of want someone to work towards goals with. A solid partner in crime and shenanigans who is always there.

 

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CP3S said:

Over the last couple of years I've discovered I'm really good at casual relationships, I can juggle several at once, hold their interest for pretty much as long as I want most of the time, and (usually) gracefully drop the ones that grow stale or uninteresting.

Well, guys, here it is.

CP3S is pimpin' it up. He's mackin' it to the ladies and droppin' 'em hoes when they stop puttin' out. Ya heard?

Word. what.

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CP3S=Closet Pimp 3S(Smack 'em; Spank 'em; Squirt on 'em)

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CP3S said:

Over the last couple of years I've discovered I'm really good at casual relationships, I can juggle several at once, hold their interest for pretty much as long as I want most of the time, and (usually) gracefully drop the ones that grow stale or uninteresting. But I suck at potentially serious monogamous ones. Girls will get into me real quick, become totally smitten, and when I return interest and want to pursue something, it seems to fizzle in 3 to 6 months, then I have to go out and start new casual ones because I blew all the other ones off for that one.

Been hanging out with this one girl for a month now (yeah, that's not very long) who I really click with. The other day she admitted that she stopped answering messages from the other guys she had been seeing right after meeting me because they suddenly didn't seem worth wasting time on anymore, and hasn't fooled around with anyone since. I haven't admitted it to her yet, but I've totally been dodging messages from all the other women in my life since meeting her too.

I really dig this girl, she makes it all the way down my check list on desirable features and traits so far, and we seem to want all the same things in life, but this is the point where I feel like a hopeless high schooler and have no idea how I am suppose to act from here on. I feel like if I reach over the line and admit I want to date her exclusively, we'll probably have a really fun 3 or 4 months before we realize we are just smoking filter and have to toss the butt. If I keep it casual, I bet I could still be hanging out with her for another six months or more down the road, while not having to muck around with obligations and strong feelings.

Ugh, relationships suck. But I'm kind of getting burnt out on meaningless physical activity, and kind of want someone to work towards goals with. A solid partner in crime and shenanigans who is always there.

Wow, I pity you. You WISH you were a self hating, depressed basement dweller like me. But hey, not everyone is as lucky as good ol' yours truly. ;)

 

[not hating on you, C3PS, this is more of a counterpoint to your words, and, let's face it, only results in adding narcissistic to my list of adjectives]

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I was a depressed basement dweller for a while after getting a divorced, then I realized sex is really easy to get, is fun, and it is a huge ego boost. It lost its luster a long time ago, and the emptiness of it all makes it pretty depressing. I still feel pretty much like I did in my depressed basement dwelling days, and would be just as productive wasting my time playing video games and jackin' it, none of them actually care about me, just the way I make them feel and that buzz is temporary, they usually disappear once I start showing a modicum of genuine interest. It's all artificial and hollow. Also, it seems at my age all the really decent women are taken and in serious relationships. Whenever one that could be described as a "keeper" comes my way, it is because they dumped or got dumped by their longish term significant others and are rebounding, which never goes anywhere, or they are celebrating having their freedom again, which means I'm just a rain drop in a very big and disgusting river they won't even remember a few months down the road. 

Sometimes I feel like I am destined to keep doing this until my hair falls out and I grow increasingly pudgy and women lose their interest, then end up spending the rest of my life alone.

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I'll keep that in mind.

I can spend my older, balder, pudgier years pounding sexy twinks.

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That makes two of us. I'm already balding and pudgy.

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Explain "ridiculous fads"?

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I thought he said "ridiculous gams".

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AntcuFaalb said:

CP3S=Closet Pimp 3S(Smack 'em; Spank 'em; Squirt on 'em)

Dammit! I'll never be able to look at my screen name the same way again...

 

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If you will only settle for a woman with boobs bigger than your head or a body as skinny as a famine victim or the sort of guy who doesn't shake at the loo but stirs you deserve a long stand.

People are people not furniture.

You can't measure up a corner of your life and then hunt for the ideal place to rest your loins.

Well you can and if you have the money you may get someone matching the specifications exactly but it's a very hollow sort of interaction.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6Dp2OfIT_M

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:(

I am pretty shallow.

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CP3S said:

AntcuFaalb said:

CP3S=Closet Pimp 3S(Smack 'em; Spank 'em; Squirt on 'em)

Dammit! I'll never be able to look at my screen name the same way again...

I'm glad. :-D

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I’m late to the party, but I think this is the best song. Enjoy!

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TV's Frink said:

We need a dating thread.

I LOVE this idea! California Dates bring a unique quality of flavor and texture to any recipe. What do you do with your dates?


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Where were you in '77?

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Bingo's sig says "Anal".

Heh.

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Well you have a funny hat.

Also I can't find the "I'm back" thread, so I can't explain my absence. Sorry.

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. . . but this is the point where I feel like a hopeless high schooler and have no idea how I am suppose to act from here on.

Most interesting part. Many guys get stuck at hopeless high schooler mode just trying to get a girl. At least you make it to a higher level. I'm inept at getting women. That said, I've been in a monogamous relationship for quite awhile. So, it's not like I try to get women now. I'm jealous of you anyhow ;[

The blue elephant in the room.