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How do I get people to like me?
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1- Be good looking.
2- Be actractive.
3- Don't be unatractive.
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Originally posted by: sean wookie How do I get people to like me?
Well I like you just because you have the Apple Logo/Motto in your signature. I’m a long time Mac fan though. Now do you want to know how to get people on the boards to like you or people in real life?
On the boards it’s real easy: be honest, be consistent, be open-minded, be loyal, be diligent, defend the rights of others (even when they disagree with you) and fight to the death for what’s right.
In real life: Same as above, but much more difficult to execute. It’s not that hard to ignore an ignorant comment on a thread. I’ve been ignoring Chrisdo for a week now. It is hard to ignore it when someone cuts you off on the highway. That human essentially just told you that their time is more important than your life. That’s hard to ignore and it’s also why I no longer pack heat when I drive. I pray and I try to follow the ideals of the greatest living Philosopher, Jesus Christ. If you have a faith of some kind then cling to that for strength. If you have no faith then cling to the fact that you have HUGE BALLS and are taking a HUGE RISK with your eternal soul. I think if people would remember their faith in a higher power (or faith that there is no higher power) they would be more resilient.
- Darth-Adroit
“I also thought George could be turned back to the good side. It couldn't be done. He is more CGI now than story. Twisted and evil.”
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Greatest man to walk this earth.
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If you have no faith then cling to the fact that you have HUGE BALLS and are taking a HUGE RISK with your eternal soul.
I'm nolonger a follower but damn, that was good right there.
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first of all be yourself. if you're like me and you have layers, pick the layer that you feel represents you most of the time, which is normally the outside one. more importantly, you must believe that you like yourself, because when a person is confident in themselves, it's like they have this aura around them that draws other ppl to them. people wonder why this individual is so confident, why they are so happy with themselves, life and living in general. i know i've probably said it before, but tell yourself you're hot. cuz beauty is skin deep and sean you're a great person, after getting to know you on the forum, AND seeing your pictures, i'd probably take the chance to date you (if you weren't 16, i'm pretty sure that qualifies as rape since i'm 21 haha). but what i'm basically saying is that if you just be yourself, girls are gonna be attracted to that (if it's girls you are trying to get to like you). for guys, i'm not really sure how male bonding works, you'd have to ask someone else.
but from someone who has had a MAJOR crush on a not-so-very attractive guy (back in gr 8) i learned from that experience that looks aren't everything. mind you he was an amazing charmer, and almost every girl in the school had a crush on him. but he knew how to make a girl feel special. that's another important thing, we girls like to know that we are special to you. because sometimes we feel that you as guys could do better (i know it's a ridiculous feeling, but even i have felt that way about a guy). and we sometimes need that extra reinforcement that you really are into us.
hope this all helps! and if it's anything to you, i think you're cute! for a youngin'
~* you know you love me... xoxo *~
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Originally posted by: Hot.like.fire
okay sean i'm gonna give my "great aunt gertrude" advice (long story short, 2 friends of mine used to write an advice column in our school newspaper, but i used to write the horoscopes haha and damn they were scandalous).
first of all be yourself. if you're like me and you have layers, pick the layer that you feel represents you most of the time, which is normally the outside one. more importantly, you must believe that you like yourself, because when a person is confident in themselves, it's like they have this aura around them that draws other ppl to them. people wonder why this individual is so confident, why they are so happy with themselves, life and living in general. i know i've probably said it before, but tell yourself you're hot. cuz beauty is skin deep and sean you're a great person, after getting to know you on the forum, AND seeing your pictures, i'd probably take the chance to date you (if you weren't 16, i'm pretty sure that qualifies as rape since i'm 21 haha). but what i'm basically saying is that if you just be yourself, girls are gonna be attracted to that (if it's girls you are trying to get to like you). for guys, i'm not really sure how male bonding works, you'd have to ask someone else.
but from someone who has had a MAJOR crush on a not-so-very attractive guy (back in gr 8) i learned from that experience that looks aren't everything. mind you he was an amazing charmer, and almost every girl in the school had a crush on him. but he knew how to make a girl feel special. that's another important thing, we girls like to know that we are special to you. because sometimes we feel that you as guys could do better (i know it's a ridiculous feeling, but even i have felt that way about a guy). and we sometimes need that extra reinforcement that you really are into us.
hope this all helps! and if it's anything to you, i think you're cute! for a youngin'
okay sean i'm gonna give my "great aunt gertrude" advice (long story short, 2 friends of mine used to write an advice column in our school newspaper, but i used to write the horoscopes haha and damn they were scandalous).
first of all be yourself. if you're like me and you have layers, pick the layer that you feel represents you most of the time, which is normally the outside one. more importantly, you must believe that you like yourself, because when a person is confident in themselves, it's like they have this aura around them that draws other ppl to them. people wonder why this individual is so confident, why they are so happy with themselves, life and living in general. i know i've probably said it before, but tell yourself you're hot. cuz beauty is skin deep and sean you're a great person, after getting to know you on the forum, AND seeing your pictures, i'd probably take the chance to date you (if you weren't 16, i'm pretty sure that qualifies as rape since i'm 21 haha). but what i'm basically saying is that if you just be yourself, girls are gonna be attracted to that (if it's girls you are trying to get to like you). for guys, i'm not really sure how male bonding works, you'd have to ask someone else.
but from someone who has had a MAJOR crush on a not-so-very attractive guy (back in gr 8) i learned from that experience that looks aren't everything. mind you he was an amazing charmer, and almost every girl in the school had a crush on him. but he knew how to make a girl feel special. that's another important thing, we girls like to know that we are special to you. because sometimes we feel that you as guys could do better (i know it's a ridiculous feeling, but even i have felt that way about a guy). and we sometimes need that extra reinforcement that you really are into us.
hope this all helps! and if it's anything to you, i think you're cute! for a youngin'
You must be my favorite online person to talk to.
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Even if you are sweating under the collar, and spent hours planning whatever it is you are about to do, project an image of a sort of "devil may care" confidence and the feeling that you have everything well in hand and people will flock to you.
It helps if you have a good(and unique) sense of humor. Myself, I tend to lead towards the "holier than thou" sense of sarcasm, and it seems to get loads of laughs because I also let them know that its all an act, and that I really do care about their companionship.
What was the old saying? I may be paraphrasing but it is something along the lines of the best way to get friends is to become one.
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Originally posted by: Hot.like.fire
the one standing at the front of the class? she looks pretty.
the one standing at the front of the class? she looks pretty.
She turned into a mega bitch so it proves looks arent everything.
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use names as much as you can.
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Originally posted by: TheSessler
Well, are you TRULY counter-culture? Being something your not might also put some people off.
Well, are you TRULY counter-culture? Being something your not might also put some people off.
Yeah I never really like what others like.
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I mean, I freely wear suits and ties, but does that make me counter-culture?