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Originally posted by: Gaffer Tape
If you think she's annoying, then you shouldn't go out with her. I mean, how can you have a basis for relationship if you can't stand being around her? And even if you are going for the *groan* action, I don't see how it would be any good if she was constantly getting on your nerves the whole time. Find someone you're more compatible with, and don't give into shallow urges.


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Gaffer does have a point. if you do actually find her annoying now, get out before it gets worse. and trust me it usually gets worse.

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Totally agree. I dated one girl who was a little annoying. I tried to change her, but you can't change people.
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yeah thats true eh sybeman? you can't ever really change a person not matter how hard you try. just cuz you change their physical appearance it doesnt matter, they still stay the same on the inside.

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Oh, I didn't stop at physical changes. I tried to get her to come back to catholicism from whatever weirdo-christian church she was at at the time. I succeeded, but now she's left cathoplcism again for Presbyterianism
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the only thing is often you change yourself, if shes annoying today, then you could get used to it, and who knows maybe she had a 100 other qualities taht you dont know about that more the make up for it.
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hmm religious conflict can pose a problem at times

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yeah often religious things can really mess up relationships. even strong ones.
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Originally posted by: Hot.like.fire
haha sean "she talks too much"

i'll let you in on a little secret.... it's called selective listening. very VERY handy!
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I met this other girl today very nice looking and most important she is very nice. I've been told she likes me should I belive it or not HLF?

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it all depends on the source of the info. if its from a trust worthy person go with it, especially if you see evidence to support it.
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Originally posted by: sybeman
Oh, I didn't stop at physical changes. I tried to get her to come back to catholicism from whatever weirdo-christian church she was at at the time. I succeeded, but now she's left cathoplcism again for Presbyterianism


It's not a very good idea to try to change someone's religion. That's worse than anything. People take those sorts of things very seriously with their conditioning and all. IMHO, one of the biggest problems in the world are all these people out here trying to get others to "see the light."
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Originally posted by: Adamwankenobi
Originally posted by: sybeman
Oh, I didn't stop at physical changes. I tried to get her to come back to catholicism from whatever weirdo-christian church she was at at the time. I succeeded, but now she's left cathoplcism again for Presbyterianism


It's not a very good idea to try to change someone's religion. That's worse than anything. People take those sorts of things very seriously with their conditioning and all. IMHO, one of the biggest problems in the world are all these people out here trying to get others to "see the light."


for once i agree with you adam, everyone has there own way to 'see the light' and other people need to respect that.
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Originally posted by: sybeman
I succeeded, but now she's left cathoplcism again for Presbyterianism


LOL "cathoplcism"


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Originally posted by: Hot.like.fire
haha sean "she talks too much"

i'll let you in on a little secret.... it's called selective listening. very VERY handy!
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I met this other girl today very nice looking and most important she is very nice. I've been told she likes me should I belive it or not HLF?
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sean, if you feel the connection, i'd say go for it. the worst thing that could happen is you'll have a million 'what if's?" in you're head, and i don't think anything is as worse as that. look for little signals when you're around her as to whether or not she likes you. If her friends are telling you that she likes you (and if you are in high school or jr high) i can safely say that she probably does as we often get our friends to do our dirty work cuz we are either too shy or too nervous to actually go up and talk to you ourselves. the only way that could backfire is if her friends and her a bunch of major bitches and lead guys on as a joke. so ask yourself what kinda crowd is she from, what are her friends like? that should answer that question as to whether or not her friends and her are for real.

finally if you notice things like constant staring, giggling as you walk by (with her friends) and other typical female novice flirting techniques i'd say this is a green light and go for it. the likelihood that she'd ask you out? pretty slim. i'm not like other girls, and in jr high i did ask a guy out, i wasn't gonna wait around any longer with the mixed signals and i was really glad i did. however most girls around the age of 14-17 don't have that kind of self confidence (or maybe cockiness?) that i had back in the day so don't hold out waiting for her to make a move. she probably won't, esp if she is unsure where you stand. try making it obvious that you're interested and you'll see more signals from her that she is too.

i guess i'm saying take a chance, you never know. but it comes down to whether or not you're comfortable about it/around her. thats my girl view hope it helps!

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Her friends are nice to me because I work with them in the flower shop at school and I do the stuff like clean out the drain and shit. She is very nice and always mentioning the prom when I am around. She also said if I cut my hair and it wasn't all shaggy I would look cute.
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hmmm okay she def has a crush on you. mentioning prom? TOTALLY. she clearly wants you to ask her.

how would you feel getting a slight trim? we aren't talking totally shaved head (altho some girls do find that hot ie me) but maybe an inch or so. i'm betting if you cut your hair, even slightly she'd notice.

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yeah i would definately say to ask her, shes giving you and opening to ask there. do it soon too b4 its too late, the girl i asked to the prom was taken by the time i got up the guts to ask her, still had a dance with her though but still the guy she went with was and is an asshole.
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okay yeah its on the shaggy side. but hey that is fashion right now. my buddy scotty is a totally ladies man and has shaggy hair and it looks really good on you. me i'm not the biggest fan, i like the clean cut guys, and it sounds to me like your girl would rather you have hair a little shorter. maybe go to the barber and ask for a "small trim' see what they do. cut the bangs a tiny bit. and the back like an inch and i think it will look good. but keep the bangs, they look good on you. cut your hair so that you can see your ears.

but hey dont just do this all for the girl, you gotta do it for yourself too. don't EVER change for someone, they should like you for you!

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I was going to get a hair cut anyway, my parents don't really like my hair and they bug me until I get it cut. And I'm going to put up alot more pictures for the hell of it.
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yeah do it... if you got it flaunt it. your hair looks nice tho, all shiny.
lol i'm putting a pic up in the funny stories section. cuz it really was a funny night. see if you guys recognize me. haha

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hmm i donno if i quite agree with you PJ, you cant really go halfway with his haircut in my opinion, i tried to that a couple years ago remember. i think for the look your hair looks awesome sean. but yeah jsut get the barber to clean it up, i dont think that bringing up the sides to your ears would help too much.

anyway i jsut can visualise very much you know what they say about hair though, girls always know best.