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of course. i wont be around next week cuz i'm in Las Vegas but i want to hear all about monday when i get back!

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write a script. that might help
OR better yet
call a friend up and practice on them.
if you stumble and mix up your words don't worry, we do it too.

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Look, sean, don't worry about it. Just be yourself. That is all you can ever hope to be. After all, if you try to be someone else, then, in the end, yourself won't be who she'll be falling in love with, will it? And if you be yourself? Maybe she'll like you, maybe she won't. But in the end you'll be better off presenting who you are, not who you want to be.
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Originally posted by: Adamwankenobi
Originally posted by: Nanner Split
Age shouldn't really be a factor.


That statement I can agree with.


Perhaps I should've been more specific. Age shouldn't be a factor as long as the age difference is within reason. For instance, both parties should be past puberty

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Hmm... I see. Then age does matter in your opinion, then?
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Well, I'm not exactly gonna run off with some twelve year old.

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Originally posted by: Nanner Split
Well, I'm not exactly gonna run off with some twelve year old.


Then you're saying that you believe that age does matter then.

I'm sure you wouldn't have said that in ancient/biblical times. I mean, you would have 30 year old men dating 13 year olds. And even Mary, the mother of Christ, was supposedly 13 or so when she dated Joseph.
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If it'll shut you the hell up, then yeah, sure, whatever. I guess I just figured that whoever read that would have standards, but I forgot that you were here.

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i hate to add into this whole age discussion, but since i was writing my mythology paper and took a break i thought i'd put my 2 cents in.

Helen of Sparta (who later became Helen of Troy) was kidnapped at the age of 10 by Theseus, King of Athens and he raped her. He was 50.

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I believe in the "One half plus seven" rule, because math never lies.

Take your age, divide by two, and add seven. If the object of your affection is younger than that, then he or she is too young.

As an example, we'll take my age, 23. Divide by two, and you get 12 (I round up). Add seven, and you end up with a final of 19. I'm 23, and I shouldn't date younger than 19. Well, in this case, 18 and a half would be fine, but I'd consider a girl who just turned 18 to be a little young for me.

This equation works well, in my opinion. At younger ages, it stops you from dating too young (eg, if you're 17, you shouldn't date younger than 15 and a half), while at older ages, it allows greater range (a 40 year old could date as young as 27). I think it keeps things in reasonable range. Also, it means that you shouldn't be dating if you're younger than 14.

Math is good like that.
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I hope this girl isn't like a crazy person who would like to boil bunnies, if she is that must explain why she likes me.
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Originally posted by: sybeman
I believe in the "One half plus seven" rule, because math never lies.

Take your age, divide by two, and add seven. If the object of your affection is younger than that, then he or she is too young.

As an example, we'll take my age, 23. Divide by two, and you get 12 (I round up). Add seven, and you end up with a final of 19. I'm 23, and I shouldn't date younger than 19. Well, in this case, 18 and a half would be fine, but I'd consider a girl who just turned 18 to be a little young for me.

This equation works well, in my opinion. At younger ages, it stops you from dating too young (eg, if you're 17, you shouldn't date younger than 15 and a half), while at older ages, it allows greater range (a 40 year old could date as young as 27). I think it keeps things in reasonable range. Also, it means that you shouldn't be dating if you're younger than 14.

Math is good like that.


wow thats actually a great formula, i am going to use it.
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well your what 17 so using that rule you could date a 15 year old at the youngest so it works out
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Originally posted by: sean wookie
I use the two years younger rule.


I agree with you, Sean, at the younger ages, but as you move on, then it's not as big an issue. I mean, if two people were seeing each other and were 37 and 32, you wouldn't say anything about it, but you probably would if they were each 17 years younger (making them 20 and 15, for anyone who doesn't care to do the math). I think the age closeness can relax as we get older.
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yeah no he is right i am 20 and i was dating a 17 year old in september and there were no problems
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Well, I have always missed out on the whole dating thing. I should have done it when I was younger, maybe 12/13. But I didn't. And now I am interested, and now people say I can't.
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my theory with dating someone soo much younger than you (when you are between the ages of 18-25) is that you have low self esteem when it comes to girls/guys so you go for the younger ones (who would automatically think its 'really cool' dating an older person). this may not be the case in all scenarios, but it is what i beleive. a 24 year old guy that is always dating 18 year olds screams out 'loser' to me cuz he can't get anybody his own age.

for me, being 21, i wouldn't date someone younger than 20. but in terms of how old, i'd say maybe my cut off limit for actually dating a guy is 30. however i have been know to fall for guys around 30-35 (back when i was 18 and 19). so yeah that's my story/view.

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i donno if its quite that way HLF, usually girls will get married around the age of 23 or 24 and looking for serious relationships at that age, where as guys at that age still want to party it up. you could call it the difference in maturity, girl mature faster then guys. for guys they want to get married at like 26- 30 age range, and so its just a matching maturity levels. i think your partially right though, 24 to 18 is bad, but 24 - 20 wouldnt be that bad. i still wouldnt look down on people that go that far, 30 - 20 i would though or something along those lines.
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What should I ask her, if she wants to hang out?