So yeah, I know plenty of gay people, some of whom have chosen to live straight.
Alright, so why do they choose to live straight?
Maybe they want to have kids; maybe they want to settle down. I don’t know. It isn’t self-loathing though, I can say that for sure, not in these cases.
The former is reasonable, the latter is baffling. How is be coming straight ‘settling down?’
That’s like saying a giraffe wants to be a cow.
Or a man wants to be a woman? That seems like the obvious analogy.
You can change your gender. I don’t see how you can change your sexual identity.
Why?
I think we have a fundamental disagreement here. I think being gay is something you have from birth, you think it’s a choice. And we’re not going to argue ourselves out of those positions—that’s just how it’s gonna be.