Christianity (or at least Christianity based solely on the Bible) is inherently “anti-gay” in the sense that it claims homosexual relations are ungodly. I don’t see how any churches can honestly get around the fact that it’s made clear in both New and Old Testaments.
If you interpret it as the literal word of God as it fell flawlessly from his lips to parchment, then it is. But many faiths actually hold more liberal interpretations. I’m sure you don’t believe women shouldn’t speak at all in church.
All I believe for sure is that you won’t fool the children of the revolution. I don’t see how verses relating to homosexuality in the Bible could be interpreted any other way than as condemning. I’m under the impression that the line in 1 Tim. is referring to woman pastors/church leaders. There are instances in Acts relating to female missionaries and church servicewomen.