Asteroid-Man said:
sigh I’m speaking in relative terms. He joined in 2014 - this thread is from 2008. He hasn’t been around for the entire ride. In any case, if you’re going to take anything from what I wrote, don’t focus on the “be welcoming to noobs” part, but rather the “be patient and courteous” part.
I think your general point is a good one. We (certainly including myself) should be accommodating to new users.
But, as others have said, this user is an exception in some ways. There have been many, many, many attempts to convey a sense of what forum etiquette should be to him (to be clear: not begging, demanding, or harassing because you think you’ve found someone who can make a thing you want to have but do not want to be involved in making). Quite a few times, this has been very polite. Other times, less so. The user will apologize and ask or demand something in the same response post, clearly missing the message.
After quite a few of these conversations, I think it’s the consensus here that the guy isn’t a troll. He may be on the autistic spectrum or have something else going on. We’ve worked out that it’s not just a matter of being extremely young. So, there’s no reason to be rude to him. But there is a need to be a bit strict with him, I would say. It’s certainly the case of offering an inch and taking a mile when you reach out to him about a suggestion of his, so members who aren’t familiar with him should be informed that considering his suggestions/demands/questions may lead to months of daily messages as he might think you will be the one to grant him some great favors.
It can be difficult to determine who is intentionally trolling a forum like this, since there are people with special needs, etc, who are welcome to be members of the community. When there are users (like “Dat”, for instance) who intentionally exploit that kind of patience, it can be certainly be tempting to just respond rudely. In the case of JMO, I really don’t think it’s intentional in any way. It is, however, enormously persistent to the point that giving a genuine response can unfortunately (for everyone) backfire quite a bit.