My personal canon:
Most of the Thrawn Trilogy (replace Jaina and Jacen with Ben)
Not that I’m complaining or anything, but how exactly do you make that work?
(Do you skip certain chapters, lines…? I mean I too nitpick my stories, but this sounds somewhat complicated.)
Last time I read them was before TFA, but IIRC they aren’t even born until halfway through The Last Command, so I just imagine that Leia was having one kid instead of two. I don’t skip any chapters or anything.