Having said that, if you want to make a DVD that works best for your situation, Moth3r, then I don't think anyone would begrudge you that. Each person must make his or her own decision. But what works for you won't work for everybody else. Unless you make anamorphic and letterboxed versions for people to choose from, in which case you'll be king of the world.
This thread is going to frustrate those who are trying to learn more about this topic. Because you've got some who say "anamorphic looks better on 16:9 TVs than letterboxed," and some who say "no, letterboxed looks better." And they're both correct, because there are so many widescreen TVs out there, and they're all different, just like people's tastes are all different.
Again, the hard decision is not "should I do anamorphic?" The hard decision is "whom do I wish to please more?"