Yeah I suppose that’s one way to look at it.
And what makes you think they don’t? Maybe your problems are just less easily perceived. With me I’ve developed pale, blotchy skin, baggy, sunk in, wrinkly, bloodshot eyes with purple sacks underneath (hehe, purple sacks) weight loss and just a generally sick appearance that they’ve all known me long enough to know isn’t what I’m supposed to look like. Perhaps if your problems we’re so visible people would have one for you too? I’m sure people care. And trust me, the guilt of having people you love more than life itself worried to the point of tears over the way you live your life isn’t as glamorous as it sounds.