I should let Dom respond, but I think you misunderstand his point.
For certain no one said the second thing.
I was using the same logic for the second thing. If gay people cannot relate to straight people, then why should non-black people be able to relate to black people?
If it’s a Finn/Poe relationship that wouldn’t be an issue. Clearly those characters have more going on than just their sexuality.
That is true, but I don’t think homosexuality should be a main theme for a Star Wars film. There are plenty of other films for that. If they are, that’s fine, but I don’t want to be hit over the head with it if that’s the case.
I just think Star Wars should be more inclusive.
I’d rather they focus on good characters than making sure everyone feels included. There are way too many different kinds of people, it’s simply unfeasible to achieve, because if it’s not one thing, it’ll be another.