The changes I liked (1997);
- The restoration itself, which for back then was superb and, as is the Lucas way, later ruined by the 2004 colours
- CGI X-Wings during the Battle of Yavin
- Removal of card cutouts during celebration
- Removal of stained-glass windows in Cloud City
- New celebration song at the end of RoTJ
- General clean-up of all the optical effects.
The changes I can't stand (1997 and beyond);
- Ben's new call when saves Luke... lol, I mean seriously?
- R2-D2 hiding behind a rock in same scene
- Han vs. Greedo obviously
- Luke's scream when he falls after the "Nooo!" (though at least this was later removed)
- 'Jedi Rocks'...
- Hayden as Anakin's ghost at the end of RoTJ.
I would take the '97 S.Es over the most recent ones any day, but it's very difficult to choose a happy medium. While the original theatrical cuts are faithful, I would still find it tough to not see some of the genuine improvements listed above.