Yep, you the nail on the head. You missed everything, and I've kept a level head, but I'm the sensitive one after all. You got me, bud ;)

I think a big part of the problem is your inability to distinguish between a suggested hypothetical situation and me demanding an actual parity or next step in cultural evolution. I will post my original post when I can once again, I will make slight but obvious commentary, and hopefully you will see the difference between your interpretation and what I'd actually intended, making it clear no backpedaling has taken place, and hopefully clarifying the point one last time. If your sensitivities are too strong to allow rational discussion of uncomfortable topic after that, I'm afraid I'll have to let you sit convinced that I'm a bigot.