Ang Lee's Hulk is not a part of the MCU canon, it was done by Universal before Marvel reacquired the rights. Nor are any of the animated series.
Here's a more or less chronological list of the MCU as it currently stands:
Captain America: The First Avenger
Agent Carter
- Now is Not the End
- Bridge and Tunnel
- Time and Tide
- The Blitzkrieg Button
- The Iron Ceiling
- A Sin to Err
- Snafu
- Valediction
Marvel One-Shot: Agent Carter
Iron Man
The Incredible Hulk
Iron Man 2
Marvel One-Shot: A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to Thor's Hammer
Thor
Marvel One-Shot: The Consultant
The Avengers
Marvel One-Shot: Item 47
Iron Man 3
Marvel One-Shot: All Hail the King
Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. (season one)
- Pilot
- 0-8-4
- The Asset
- Eye-Spy
- Girl in the Flower Dress
- FZZT
- The Hub
Thor: The Dark World
Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. (season one)
- The Well
- Repairs
- The Bridge
- The Magical Place
- Seeds
- T.R.A.C.K.S.
- T.A.H.I.T.I.
- Yes Men
- End of the Beginning
Captain America: The Winter Soldier
Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. (season one)
- Turn, Turn, Turn
- Providence
- The Only Light in the Darkness
- Nothing Personal
- Ragtag
- Beginning of the End
Guardians of the Galaxy
Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. (season two)
- Shadows
- Heavy is the Head
- Making Friends and Influencing People
- Face My Enemy
- A Hen in the Wolf House
- A Fractured House
- The Writing on the Wall
- The Things We Bury
- Ye Who Enter Here
- What They Become
- Aftershocks
- Who You Really Are
- One of Us
- Love in the Time of HYDRA
- One Door Closes
- Afterlife
- Melinda