I'm at a loss of what to do about one of my friends. I'm sorry if this message ends up being disjointed and rambly, I'm way wasted more than I've been in a long time. My friend that I've been friends with for years is now causing more upset than anything. He only hits me up or responds to my calls anymore if he's out of things to get high on because he knows I'll have pot. It didn't used to be that way. Tonight me and about 7 or 8 people were having a mini beer pong party and all the sudden out of nowhere him and this other dude about come to blows over some stupid misunderstanding that I don't want to even get into right now. My friend wasn't in the wrong and didn't really do anything, but we couldn't get him to understand that the other guy was just too drunk and wasn't thinking straight, he just took it personally and wanted blood. Screaming at the top of his lungs after the other guy had left at 3 in the morning, we're lucky the cops didn't show up. Me and my other friend (we kinda have a group of three muskateers you might say... the other guy is also my best friends and we are on much better terms and he doesn' tuse me and actually thinks rationally) spent all night trying to calm him down and basically babysit him. He ended up turning on us and trying to fight us just for trying to stop him from doing anything stupid, so we left. Me and my other friend are both at a loss for what to do. We're tired of him using us, and we're tired of having to babysit him when he gets too drunk. And because the fight wasn't originally his fault it is impossible to explain it to him when he's drunk because he knows he didn't start the fight and that's the only side of the argument he's even willing to consider. We don't want to just let him go because we've all been friends for years. The thing that complicates things is that me and the rational one drink and get high more than he does, so that takes away any vantage point we might have in trying to talk to him about it. All he has to do is point out how fucked up we are (even though we don't fight or lose the ability to think straight like he does) and we've lost the argument. So we're at a loss for what to do. We're tired of being treated like shit.