Perhaps in a cordial thread I shouldn't have brought up my issues with him. But I reiterate again, he is welcome back whenever he wants. I never meant to drive him away, and I too love his sense of humor. There are several things he has done that I found particularly rude to me specifically, not the least of which was not only a lack of apology in any particular disagreement, but a flat out refusal to do so, saying he only apologizes when he believes he did something wrong. In other words, in every disagreement, while I would do my best to straighten things out and smooth things over, I was always 100% to blame in his mind. I miss the nice side of Bingowings, but all of him, rude and self-righteous or peacemaker and humorist, is welcome to return whenever he wants. I never sent him away and was surprised at such a dramatic move. I'll continue to try to make things work if he ever decides to return.